It was September 1986. I just moved back from NYC to start a new job with the state of NY. My car insurance was purchased from a friend of mine who suggested I get a life insurance policy. It was so convenient; they came right to the office. Not long...
When R. Craig Stringer answered the phone one afternoon and heard an unfamiliar, formal-sounding voice, he knew it couldn't be bringing good news.
"Being an '80s kid/'90s teen means that my value system is dictated by how I was indoctrinated. Namely, that HIV is the very worst thing you could ever get."
Making the decision to disclose your HIV status is a big deal -- so why not do it in a big way? Nolan Hill used YouTube as a way to tell his enthralling story of coming out as gay and HIV positive.
"We should eat better because we CAN eat better. It's similar to how the advent/usage of clean drinking water 150 years ago made those human beings the luckiest in history."
"They had called the health department; they were in the office waiting for me. The doctor came in and asked if I knew I had HIV? I said no so they talked to me about it, and I burst out hysterically crying. I was devastated!"
"Undetectable" may be a medical term, but it means so much more than just your viral load. Here, two guys discuss its personal resonance for them.
After learning that being safe "for the most part" is not that safe, Dan has three pieces of advice for everybody: find care, get support and be open and honest.
What if the day you were diagnosed was also the day that all your coworkers discovered your status -- and you weren't the one to disclose?
For Tom, the day of his diagnosis is a happy memory. After he tested positive and his boyfriend tested negative, they said the three small words that brought them closer than ever.