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Henry Philyaw

Henry Philyaw

Henry Philyaw is a freelance writer from the Washington, D.C., Metro area and now resides in Brooklyn, N.Y. His work focuses on sex positivity and education, particularly around LGBTQIA issues.

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Queer People’s Obsession With Gender Roles Is Doing More Harm Than Good

Regardless of our roles in the bedroom, we can build healthy relationships in which we let our strengths shine and support each other in our challenges.

By Henry Philyaw
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Viewpoints

What an Older Queer Man Wants in the Dating Pool

“I am not paying for everything because I am trying to buy you off, but because I want a fulfilling experience—and I don’t allot time to go back and forth on what someone can afford.”

By Henry Philyaw
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Into Anal? Find Planning Meals Around Sex a Hassle? Here's How to Get Ready in 15 Minutes.

There are ways to prep for bottoming that don't require starving yourself in advance or stocking up on anti-diarrhea meds.

By Henry Philyaw