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Risks for getting stds from these activities?

Last weekend, my friend gave me handjob - jerked off and I ejaculated. At one point my penos touched his butt (just outside not in his butt hole). Are these giving me high chance of getting stds? Thank you

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Bottom on PrEP, Top Unknown

Hi. I recently had condomless, safer sex as a bottom with a partner (whom I have had sex with before) who says he tested negative but is not on PrEP, and who ejaculated in me (and I can only take at word re testing). If, per se, he was recently expos...

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Stopping PrEP - 28 day recommendation?

Hi Damon - thanks for your hard work in managing this forum. I have a question about what the doctors you know are telling their patients about stopping PrEP. On the one hand, most organizations / sources recommend staying on PrEP for 28 days after t...

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Can I get HIV from just one insertion anal unprotected insertion?

Hello, I was just in a relation with another guy and being the insertive (TOP), I was playing with my partner's anus with no condom until one point on the spur of the moment, it went all the way in, but around 5 seconds later I took it off and this w...

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Unprotected sex and I'm not on PrEP?

So I recently had unprotected sex with someone who on prep. He gave me validation he is on prep and takes it daily and he showed my his results which were dated back to 10 August 2018 and he is clean of hiv and stds. Whilst he has given me lots of re...

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Top, didn't realize condom broke, on PEP after 11-12 hours

I topped a guy for about 5-7 minutes. At some point, the condom broke, and I didn't realize it, so I am not sure how long I continued after it broke. I got on Truvada about 11-12 hours later, and then followed up with tivicay after 15 hours I am extr...

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Dumb decisions

I have seen similar questions asked but non exactly the same. I'll keep it short though. Two nights ago I engaged in a sexual act with a questionable person that I had no idea of their history. During the sexual act, oral sex was given and received w...

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Gay Sex and Anal?

Hi, Me and my gay partner were trying anal with condoms on but without lube as it was our first time. We are both HIV negative. As we moved on with the anal my gay partner's condom broke out while his semen fell out in my ass. I had a little blood on...

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Rubbing face on hooker's crotch?

I rubbed my face(lips and nose)on a hookers pants at the vagina area for about 5 minutes, and probably 5 minutes on the ass area (still over the pants.) after about 10 minutes, She told me she was on her periods, I stopped immediately. There could ha...

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Drunk and stupid !

Hi Damon, I really hope to get your advise I was drunk and stupid to have sex with sex worker We had unprotected oral, protected vaginal and finish hand job (condom remove, she was on top of me) Later the night I notice there is a cut at my penis. Ca...