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Wracked with guilt and fear

Damon -- I hope this doesn't sound like the many other "am i at risk" questions posed by lonely men who found themselves with a prostitute. Maybe I am also asking for psychological help. Here is my story. I am in a marriage that has been sexless for ...

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Serious Anxiety about my Risk (not sure if the previous one is posted)

Hi Docs and experts, I went to a massage parlour on the 19th and at the end the masseuse offer me a handjob using massage oil. During the whole massage she didn¡t take off any of her clothes and I didn¡t even touch a piece of her skin. But after 2 we...

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Bleeding with condom?

Hi, I just recently bottom for the first time and Im kind of freaking out, we used a condom and water based lube but he had to put the condom and take it out a few times because he said it was hurting him a little. after he finally put it on he toppe...

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HIV testing before starting PrEP

Hello. I have a question concerning HIV testing before beginning PrEP. I would like to start PrEP. I engaged in short dipping (as top) with someone (don't know his status) 3 weeks ago . I haven't had unprotected sex since then. Is it sufficient to ge...

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PREP Bottom, Supposed Negative Top; Transmission Risk?

Hi Damon, This is somewhat of a follow up to a question you answered in Feb of 2018 (Can someone pass on hiv if they are on PrEP? Feb 1, 2018) I'm a somewhat closeted, bi-sexsual male who has had more than a few non-condom encounters with guys who sa...

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Dirty Dirty Nose...

I read the question saying that snot doesn't contain enough of aids or HIV to pass it on but what if you use someone's nasal spray esp the one cheap one that sprays and sucks nasal spray instead of only spraying it and it collects over time becoming ...

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My partner is on ARV for 6 weeks now

Hi there, great forum My partner is on ARV for 6 weeks now. She's taking tribuss. 1 pill a day. We discovered her status after unprotected sex and I was placed on PEP 56 hours after. 8 weeks after PEP I went for a test and result was negative. So we'...

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Paranoid guy in love

Hi! I've become really paranoid and hopeing that you can help. My friend has been in multiple risky situation of catching HIV himself. When he came back home we went out for a few drinks. We might have shared bottle. I noticed he had some (what looke...

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On PrEP Topped a Positive Bottom

so I ended up sleeping with this guy from a dating app hes positive claims hes undetectable we didnt use a condom.. I was the (Top) and he was the bottom Im still on prep what are my chances Will I be fine ? I asked him if hes undetectable he told me...

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Risks After Using Condom Twice?

Hi. I was having sex with a prostitute with a condom. After some time we were exhausted, so we rested and i removed condom. After 10 mins she put on the same used condom on my penis. I was anxious and went to doctor. He said it was no risk but still ...