Latest by Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Topping somone on prep when you're not.

I went to a sex club and was the top in the sexual experience. I never do anything past oral but he was really good looking and said he was on prep. Can I get hiv from him even though he's on prep? I did not receive anything from him. He gave me oral...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

This is foolishness and pure sealery

There was pee on the toilet from someone else. I think it was fresh. I do not know how long it had been there. But it was there before my own pee mixed with the prior pee while bouncing off the toilet and running into the open wound on the thigh area...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Desperate after vaginal sex at brothel

Hi, Im a 23 year old heterosexual male, about 22 days ago i went to a brothel (its my country's best known and all the girl have a health certificate in order to be able to work there) well i had vaginal sex with her and she performed oral sex, all o...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Unneccessary PEP?

I recently met a gal who turned out to be a MTF transexual. we decided to have sex (or at least try, but it failed miserably) most of the time i wore a condom. there was never any penetration as nothing was working...however at the end before i left ...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Freaking out after HIV negative tests

Please help me with some questions I had a bout testing. So I was talking to this guy for months and we decided to finally engage in sexual activity. Well that night (oct 13) I performed oral and unfortunately very brief unprotected anal sex. The ana...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Unprotected love?

I had sex with prostitute and no condom when I realized it that we were making unprotected love, I said put the condom on to continue but she already had viginal liquid on my penis is there possibility for hiv ? Should I test it?

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Wracked with guilt and fear

Damon -- I hope this doesn't sound like the many other "am i at risk" questions posed by lonely men who found themselves with a prostitute. Maybe I am also asking for psychological help. Here is my story. I am in a marriage that has been sexless for ...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Serious Anxiety about my Risk (not sure if the previous one is posted)

Hi Docs and experts, I went to a massage parlour on the 19th and at the end the masseuse offer me a handjob using massage oil. During the whole massage she didn¡t take off any of her clothes and I didn¡t even touch a piece of her skin. But after 2 we...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

Bleeding with condom?

Hi, I just recently bottom for the first time and Im kind of freaking out, we used a condom and water based lube but he had to put the condom and take it out a few times because he said it was hurting him a little. after he finally put it on he toppe...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.

HIV testing before starting PrEP

Hello. I have a question concerning HIV testing before beginning PrEP. I would like to start PrEP. I engaged in short dipping (as top) with someone (don't know his status) 3 weeks ago . I haven't had unprotected sex since then. Is it sufficient to ge...

By Damon L. Jacobs, L.M.F.T.