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Unprotected anal as the bottom?

Thank you all so much for the information you out out on here!!! Had a possible exposure a few weeks back and researching tirelessly and there is so much info out there but also so much noise that it is very confusing!!! I was the bottom for unprotec...

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Butt pain

While I was having sex My condom broke open I did not notice any symptoms But after 12 days I started feeling butt pain Below abdomen and above rectal This middle area is pain This pain comes and goes Could it be an std I got tested for hiv it came b...

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Overseas intercourse gone wrong

Hi Damon, Thanks for this forum its a great help. I am a heterosexual male, on holiday in Bali (Indonesia) last week. During a night out I Met a girl originally from Kenya, one thing led to another & we went home (bank to my villa), during the interc...

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PreP Top, Bottom Not...risk?

Hello, Approx 5 weeks ago I had unprotected insertive anal sex with a friend. I did not ejaculate inside. He claims to be neg but not on prep and said he was tested a month prior. I have been on PreP since Aug 18 and have not missed a single dosage. ...

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Anal sex without bleeding

Good day Dr. I just had unprotected anal sex with HIV positive gay. I tried to bottom for first time. I put 2 condom on my partners penis however he took it out without my knowing and fucked me. It was short contact only prob about 3 mins only and I ...

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Does this justify being on PEP?

A man briefly put the head of his penis in my anus, for maybe about 5 seconds. He may have had some pre-cum. Right after, he performed anilingus on me, and then put a condom on and penetrated me until he ejaculated (into the condom. it did not break)...

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PREP in Vienna After Trying Anal Sex?

Hello, dear Damon :) I m male, 42, never had sTD (to my knowledge..) but like anal sex very much (with transsexual girls). I m living in vienna (Austria).Is there a possibility for me to get permanent PREP ? Vienna is not USA, but i m asking you caus...

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Need help PLEASE Mr. Jacobs

I was a virgin at the time and have never had sex before. Long story short I trusted the wrong person and ended going through an HIV scare. I was tested at 1 month, 2 months, 3 months, 4 months, 5 months, 5.5 months. My last test was a rapid test at ...

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Unprotected Brief Insertive Anal (dipping)?

Hi everyone, Last Saturday (16/03/2019) I had sex with a guy known each other for several months and that I did foolish that it is always destroying my mind up until now. He repeatedly said and insisted that he was never let anyone put inside before ...

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Unprotected sexual intercourse and undetectable

Hello, I'm really worried for my bf since we had unprotected sex and I came inside of him but the fact that got me worried is that there was also blood (his) afterwards. I'm on ARV and undetectable but I think the situation is quite risky. What is th...