wanna have sex with my wife

Question

Hope you respond Doc. I am married and messed up 16 weeks ago. I wanna have sex with my wife but a wanna make sure i am okay. I had a negative dna pcr at 25 days a 9, 13 and 15 week mouth swab oraquick done, all negative and a 15 week blood rapid oraquick also negative. Can i get on with my life now. Can I have sex with my wife. Am I negative. I wanna be 999 percent sure. Thanks Doc please respond.

Answer

Hello,

Your negative DNA PCR and antibody tests out to 15 weeks are definitive and conclusive. You are HIV negative. Yes, you can get on with your life, but I would suggest you level with your wife about "messing up." Strong enduring relationships are built on honesty and integrity. Everyone makes mistakes; however not everyone confronts their indiscretions, accepts the consequences of their actions and learns from their experience. Leveling with your wife is the right thing to do.

Good luck.

Dr. Bob