My boyfriend and i have been together for six months.
And therefore we are both in a serious relationship. he wants us to build a family but here is the problem ,
Is am scared on how to tell him about my case and how is going to react.
My question in which process shoild i proceed to tell tell him about my health? What advises would you give?
I am sorry that you are in this difficult situation.
In my opinion, the longer you wait, the higher are the chances for him to feel lied to and probably leave you because of that. But, on the other hand, he may turned out to be understanding after you tell him that you were keeping this from him because you were afraid of rejection.
You could tell him that you are terribly sorry and stress the fact that you love him. I am assuming that you have undetectable viral load and that you have not exposed him to the virus, which could complicate matters. If you indeed have undetectable viral load, try educating him about the very low risk of transmission and the fact that we can now have children without fear of passing the virus to them.
Good luck. There is no easy way to do this. But this secret will consume you and will not be fair to him. If he leaves you, it will hurt you but life does move on as we heal. I hope he is understanding!