Hi Dr. Bob and thank you for fielding my question.
My questions seem to be something many are concerned with and I thought asking it straight up would be a good way to get info out there, which is why I titled my question as I did. So, off we go:
I shaved my genital region about 10 hours before engaging in protected sex with a lady (hetero). Prior to that we engaged in unprotected frottage. Anyway, I nicked myself during shaving and bled a very little, but still bled. I now fear she might be at risk as she was married to someone in a high risk category. She's getting tested, after we spoke she thought it would be a good idea, however, the time in between is nerve racking for me.
So, my specific questions are in regards to genital shaving nicks that occur on the scrotum. I ask this specifically because for those of us who engage in only protected sex, this is an area not covered by a condom and it's probable that vaginal fluids contact the scrotum, yet obviously outside the body. Well, unless you are extremely talented, but I don't want to go there! LOL. Second, frottage with possible shaving nicks in the region, is this still no risk? From what I gather, fluids outside the body lose infectioness quickly and this has never happened or been documented as a source of infection. But this is from websites whose experiences are not near this one's.
Thank you Dr. Bob. I love your website and am going to ask my employer if I can get a match on a contribution and make a recurring donation. Maybe I can talk some co-workers into contributing too. Regardless, if that doesn't work out, would really enjoy donating to your cause and will after I find out if the match will work. I think you do a fantastic job and appreciate the service you provide.
You sliced your kibble and bits while manscaping the nether regions??? OUCHAMAGOUCHA!!!
Responding to your specific questions, relax Max! I see no cause for alarm. Your shaving mishap "bled very little" and occurred 10 hours before your unprotected bump-and-grind routine. Consequently the HIV-transmission risk would be so remote it becomes essentially nonexistent. Likewise the risk of HIV-infected cervical/vaginal fluids reaching a small 10-hour-old nick on the scrotum and resulting in HIV transmission is equally remote.
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Be well and remember to be careful when wielding sharp objects around your family jewels! The world doesn't need any additional mohels!