HI Expert! I am very worried about my experience 2 weeks ago, i had protected anal sex with a guy who claims to be HIV negative. I am the bottom one (sorry but dont know the other term for that word). This is what i am worrying about, i am the one who inserted the condom but at first it was inside out so i didnt rolled the condom down so it was just at his penis head then i flipped it. im just worried about the precum he might have when i flipped it, but before when i inserted the condom i suck him first make sure there's no precum but who knows after i suck the precum came out it was dark at that time. but i massage his pennis first with lots of lube may 30 seconds then we begun. Sorry for my English Hope someone can help methis anxiety is killing me.
In addition it was already our 2nd round that anal sex happen he ejaculated when i give him oral sex then maybe after 30 minutes we started anal sex.
It is difficult to say if there was any risk here. I suspect that very little semen if any would have remained on the outside of the condom. So, overall, my guess is your risk is very low even if your partner is HIV+ and has virus in his semen.
I would recommend testing for HIV (and other sexually transmitted infections). You can wait a couple of weeks to do the HIV test but again, I see very little risk here.