Can I get HIV from pre-cum?

Question

I am scared to death and regret what I did. About 2 months back I had unprotected oral sex with a man, but I didn't swallow when he ejaculated. Naturally however, there was pre-cum and I'm very scared that I might have HIV. I'm very very scared and terrified because I'm only 15 and I don't want my mom to know.

I regret this deeply and am willing to donate to this website.

Answer

Pre-cum can transmit the virus. However, it would be extremely unlikely for transmission to occur during oral sex.

In health,

Richard