Hi, recently I had sex with a guy (I'm also male) and we used condom and all, but in the end he came on my ass and I felt some outside my anus, I didn't have any open cuts or bleeding and cleaned right away, but I was a bit sore from the sex. Could I have contracted HIV from this exposure?
Thanks for your question,
Typically we'd say there was no risk in this situation because he didn't cum inside you.
The only thing that gives me pause is how open you were after sex, if you catch my drift. Use this logic to help understand your risk: did his cum get inside you. Not a little on the outside, but clearly inside of you.
All this being said, this doesn't sound particularly risky, also because you wiped it away so quickly.
By all means, feel free to get tested. But this doesn't sound particularly risky.
Hope this helps,