Hello there. Im hiv positive taking medication for about nine years, undetectable viral load and over 1000 CD4, Ive never gotten sick. I'm frequently performing unprotected oral sex on a man Im dating (Im the one putting his penis in my mouth), it usually takes him about 30 min to ejaculate in my mouth. Im a healthy person and my mouth is in good conditions. Am I putting him at risk?, Does the time I spend sucking him increase the chances of infecting him? or should I stop doing it? No other kind of sex is involved. For your anser, thanks a lot.
You are fine. Oral sex is an extremely low-risk activity. Also, you're undetectable, the risk of transmission is simply not there.