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Alora Gale

Morgan and Alora with their mother, Linda Brosio
Photo courtesy of Gary Gale

Morgan and Alora with their mother, Linda Brosio, in the spring of 1992. This picture was taken as they were conducting a welcoming ceremony for Alora's father Gary, who had just returned from the first National Alternative Medicine Conference in Washington, D.C. After his wife and children were diagnosed with HIV, Gary founded the National Pediatric AIDS Network, a resource for information on children and adolescents with HIV/AIDS.

Has paying for medications been a financial problem, or do you have good insurance?

We have had pretty good insurance. My grandmother has helped us out with some of the alternative things we've tried that the insurance obviously doesn't cover. So she helps out there. But the money isn't so much an issue for us as I know it is for a lot of people. We got insurance shortly before we were diagnosed. When we switched from California to Colorado we couldn't take the physical, because we wouldn't have passed and that would have boosted it up to another level. But we still have pretty decent insurance. It pays for so much. Of course, we've still had problems with it.

My little brother Mo was very small. At 13 he was only 4'8" and weighed 76 pounds -- we were very proud when he finally hit 76. He has grown so much in the past couple of years since they've been giving him growth hormones. He injected his hormone every night -- it's about the same size as an insulin shot. That costs about $30,000 a year. That was a fight with the insurance coverage: They weren't convinced that he really needed it. They thought it was just for cosmetic reasons, even though his body age was about two-and-a-half years less than his actual age. But they did eventually start covering it.

Unfortunately, I am nearing the point at which I will lose my father's coverage. I am trying to avoid the anxiety of finding other means of coverage.

When you were taking HIV medications, how did you keep track of what you needed to take? Did you have trouble with adherence?

"When we were younger, my brother and I were very fond of stuffing the HIV meds under the couch cushions. But, the realization came that the pills did actually work, and that they were really expensive, so we decided that it was a little bit more sensible to actually take them."
Well, you know, let's say I went to spend the night with friends and I forget my meds -- there's one missed dose, possibly two. That's always an issue. My brother and I became pretty good about it, especially when dad sets them out. When we were younger, my brother and I were very fond of stuffing the HIV meds under the couch cushions. But, the realization came that the pills did actually work, and that they were really expensive, so we decided that it was a little bit more sensible to actually take them. But, it was still hard just because, even though we only had to take them twice a day, it was still difficult to take them at the exact right times, all the time.

You talked about having to remember your meds when you stayed at your friend's house. How did your high school friends react? Did they understand what the meds are for?

Alora not long after she was born on Dec. 16, 1985
Photo courtesy of Gary Gale

Alora not long after she was born on Dec. 16, 1985.

Yes, they were amazing. I feel so blessed to have had friends like them. They not only have been such an amazing support, but they also have asked to be educated, and have educated themselves so much. They completely understand a lot of it, some on more scientific terms than even I do. They understand what the meds are for, and what they do, and they're always asking questions, which is wonderful, I think.

Aside from taking your medication, what have you done to take care of your health?

Well, I used to do more than I do now, because my T-cell count was so low. I didn't eat shellfish for most of my life, or peanut butter, or anything with peanuts in it. My parents were health-food nuts even before we were diagnosed, so I was pretty old before I had my first Snickers bar -- I was probably in second or third grade, which, you know, a lot of kids think, "Oh, wow, you poor, deprived child!" But that's just how I was raised. I eat pretty healthy -- I try to anyways. I try to make sure I don't get too much sugar, make sure the vegetables are washed, and no raw egg -- I don't eat raw fish, sushi, things like that.

What is it about things like shellfish and peanuts?

My parents were worried about food poisoning. What might have been a mild case for a normal person could have potentially killed me when I had no T cells. I'm not too sure about the peanuts. I believe there's an oil or a bacteria in peanuts that some people are allergic to.

If you had the opportunity to speak with a young person who just found out they were positive, what would you say?

Hang in there! It's a long road but you'll make it, hopefully. It's hard to say. It really does depend on the person, but definitely hang in there. Look for the silver lining to the dark cloud -- it will hopefully show up sooner or later.

ALORA'S POST-DIAGNOSIS MEDICAL HISTORY
CD4+ Count (Jan. 2002): 750
Viral Load (Jan. 2002): undetectable
Medications, Side Effects and Illnesses (chronologically)
Jan. 1988: diagnosed with non-PCP pneumonia
Feb. 1990: diagnosed with non-PCP pneumonia
Feb. 1992: diagnosed with mycobacterium avium complex infection in cervical lymph nodes
Sept. 1992: started Bactrim (antibiotic)
Dec. 1994: diagnosed with non-PCP pneumonia
Jan. 1996: started Biaxin (antibiotic), AZT (zidovudine, Retrovir), 3TC (lamivudine, Epivir)
1997: tried psychic healing*
May 1997: stopped Bactrim, AZT, 3TC
Jan. 1999: restarted Bactrim, started ddI (didanosine, Videx), d4T (stavudine, Zerit), Sustiva (efavirenz, Stocrin)
Jan. 1999: Sustiva causes balance, dream problems; eventually subsides
April 1999: d4T's interaction with ddI causes neuropathy, pancreatitis
May 1999: stopped ddI, started abacavir (Ziagen)
Oct. 1999: stopped d4T, started Viracept (nelfinavir)
Dec. 1999: stopped Biaxin, Bactrim
March 2000: started occasionally taking Albuterol, Flovent (for asthma)
Aug. 2001: started taking Allegra (for allergies)
Aug. 2001 - current: Alora was on a structured treatment interruption for a few years and is soon to start medications again
More on Alternative Meds/Supplements
Supplements taken: acidophilus, astralagus (immune-enhancing herb), beta carotene, CoQ10, echinacea, egg lipids, flax oil, garlic, ganoderma (immune enhancer, stress reducer, tonic and sedative), multivitamins, NAC, vitamin C, vitamin E, rutin (flavinoid), St. John's wort.
* During 1997, Alora tried psychic healing; no physical contact was involved in the therapy. Her father says the aim was to "clear HIV from the body and improve immune functions." During this time, Alora was still taking Biaxin and (for a little while) Bactrim.

Alora Gale can be reached via e-mail at alora@npan.org.

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Reader Comments:

Comment by: x (Los Angeles) Wed., Oct. 8, 2008 at 6:37 pm EDT
Alora, I just wanted to start by thanking you so much for opening up and sharing your story. As you and everyone else on here reads these comments, you can truly see how inspiring you have been, and continue to be. Speaking of this disease that now affects some 60 million people shows that anyone can have this disease whether is be child or adult, and there is such a stigma with people that live with this. Now people can see from your testomonial that this can affect anyone and that we have to speak up and out againts this to put an end to the stigmas that are associated with having this illness. We have to educate and continue to inspire to bring people together and share their stores and let everyone know that is will be OK. You being strong and going out in the communities and schools to speak about this is the first step in changing people's perspectives about Hiv and to get the ball rolling to help educate and help prevent this disease that I know we will find the cure for. I think it lies amongst us! God bless you and everyone else who lives with this. Let's come together as a community, be strong and fight this thing till it exists no more. I am HIV postive myself and I will continue the fight with you!

Comment by: deepak (india) Fri., Oct. 3, 2008 at 2:55 pm EDT
thats like a brave girl GOD BLESS U

Comment by: Babygirl79 (Natchitoches, LA) Wed., Oct. 1, 2008 at 5:29 pm EDT
I too am 29 and living with HIV. I found out last year around June, totally devastating to my life. Still have not yet come to terms with being HIV positive, but I'm dealing with it. i haven't told but a few select members of my family and church family. My family members are still denying it and can't believe that I have the disease. It's kind of hard, although I have been living with it for a year and some months. Still can't believe that I was the one who ended up getting the disease. I pray that one day I will have the courage to speak up and speak out to others about this because we really need advocacy where I live.

Comment by: Chansa (Zambia) Tue., Sep. 30, 2008 at 5:37 am EDT
This is a truly inspiring story. I am also living with HIV, almost a year now, but haven't found the strength to tell my family yet. When I talk to them about the topic, their comments make me feel they are not ready yet. You are very brave.

Comment by: harry persaud (guyana, south america) Thu., Sep. 18, 2008 at 12:36 am EDT
hi alora, you are so wonderful and sweet. thank god for your dad. he will give you all encouragement.you are so strong and brave to live a normal life.i will pray for you and your brother and dad to have strength. you all also pray and have joy in the lord and give him all your heavy load. i will, always give you support. jesus christ is lord.

Comment by: Sibongile (South Africa) Thu., Sep. 11, 2008 at 9:13 am EDT
I am also living with hiv and I admire you for being open about it. Am still not ready to discuss my status but after reading your story, I think the next step I will take is to tell those I care about. Thank you for sharing your story.

Comment by: curt (atlanta ga) Mon., Sep. 8, 2008 at 3:41 pm EDT
you are my hero... I wish i could be strong like you.. i will try

Comment by: purity (south africa) Wed., Sep. 3, 2008 at 5:38 am EDT
wow,i am inspired as i am also living with the virus

Comment by: Nureen Glaves (London,England) Sat., Aug. 30, 2008 at 3:44 pm EDT
I was researching information for my project on HIV and its effects on human sand i got on this website and read your story. Thank you so much! You have helped me express my concence and beliefs on this topic and I'm going make the project as informative and truthful as possible and hopefully through my work I can change someone options and open their eyes to the truth. HIV is a bad disease but like anything in life, it's a challenge to go though but it makes you a stronger and better person and you have proven that. So shine your light and be strong because the world needs people like you. God bless you!

Comment by: rachel genna (Mississippi) Thu., Aug. 28, 2008 at 5:20 pm EDT
i was in prison for 3 years when i came home in 2001 the first person i sleep with knowing gave me h.i.v. his wife died of aids, he lied. Now we're not together and he has a another girl. I don't think it's fair, do you? I have a dream and a story to tell. How can i do that?

Comment by: Mon., Aug. 11, 2008 at 1:51 am EDT
God Bless You

Comment by: Vasto Sun., Aug. 10, 2008 at 9:59 pm EDT
I Pray inThe Name Of God Will Heal & Bless U Amin

Comment by: Sarah Sat., Aug. 9, 2008 at 11:37 pm EDT
Its great to hear inspiring stories about you and so many other people living with HIV. God has given you the power and selected you to raise everyones voice against ignorance. I am immensely proud of you. I have been doing research in this field of medication and people like you are an inspiration every step of the way. I pray you live a prosperous and healthy life. Amen

Comment by: Joy Thu., Aug. 7, 2008 at 5:29 am EDT
Dear Alora, You are truly amazing, and a wonderful testimony of God's unfailing love. I urge you to continue to provide hope and inspiration to millions of children who are also living with HIV. I pray that you continue with the good work continue in good health and live to witness the promises of God in your life. Thank you for sharing the story.

Comment by: Sunny Mon., Aug. 4, 2008 at 9:12 am EDT
I love your story Aloe. Your life is full of challenging, but you never ever give up for your life. I am really appreciate you. You are the only one person who I am admire. Good Bless You Aloe.

Comment by: Hlly Thu., Jul. 31, 2008 at 3:55 pm EDT
I am positive and I recently had a child who is also infected because I didn't know until it was to late. I nursed him and two weeks later found out that I was positive. Now, I try to stay involved with support groups and continually wonder what Trevor will say when he gets older. I don't want to watch him get sick because of me. Thank you for your story because it gives me hope that he can grow up healthy. God bless you and I hope you stay safe while enjoying life to the fullest.

Comment by: brina Wed., Jul. 30, 2008 at 4:10 am EDT
you're very inspirational. best of luck to you Alora.

Comment by: dr anita Tue., Jul. 29, 2008 at 2:14 am EDT
god bless you...may he be ur guide and ur refuge.......may he be ur strenght....so that u cud help others by the life u live

Comment by: Philipina (Tanzania) Wed., Jul. 23, 2008 at 5:12 am EDT
your story is insipiring. God will keep on Blessing you and am sure you will get married to a happy man and God shall Bless you with beautiful kids. God Bless you sister.

Comment by: Juliana Musiimenta Mon., Jun. 30, 2008 at 4:45 am EDT
i am not hiv positive, but i work in Uganda with an organization that takes care of HIV patients and we have many children and youths. We are faced with many challenges and so i found this story very inspiring. I would wish to qoute it to the youths in their group meetings if this is okay. i hope it will help them see things differently since most Africans do not imagine a white child born and living positively with HIV. Thanks a lot Alora for being an inspiration to many.

Comment by: Mrs. Malloy Mon., Jun. 23, 2008 at 10:34 am EDT
Alora, I pray that God will continue to bless you on this journey. You will continue to be delivered and I pray God's strength during this time. You appears to be a very happy young lady and I hope that one day we will find a cure for AIDS. However, in the meantime, you continue to educate us and may God continue his blessings in your life. You are an inspiration to my life.

Comment by: sabelo Mon., Jun. 23, 2008 at 6:31 am EDT
The girl should be strong and be motivated at all times.

Comment by: thu Fri., Jun. 20, 2008 at 3:42 pm EDT
Alora, Your story is an inspiration for me to live better everyday of my life. Thank you for sharing it with me.

Comment by: sophi Fri., Jun. 20, 2008 at 3:26 pm EDT
I've realized while reading the interview,you're really mighty persons that you can continue living with this terrible,poignant feeling. To tell you the truth,there're a lot of healthy humans in the world but they can do nothing needful for others;to my mind,it's very significant for you to evade yourself from getting selfish cause it doesn't mind how many years a man lives or how he finishes his life,it's more important how he lives and how kind he've been to other people.Good luck ( :

Comment by: Shimon Wed., Jun. 11, 2008 at 12:33 am EDT
The story of Alora Gale is very entertaining like a movie story i think. Your story make me think everybody has even several types of viruses, bacteria, and other parasites, in his/her body and HIV maybe just one of the viruses. I do not down play the fact that HIV is dangerous, but it is just a virus. For this reason people with HIV (millions of them, maybe 40 million by 2007) have other problems and needs, and they should be taken seriously and with love by the society.

Comment by: dashia Fri., May. 30, 2008 at 12:52 pm EDT
in the story alora i want to ask a question what did her mom feel about having h.i.v. what did you feel?

Comment by: jean Thu., May. 29, 2008 at 3:30 pm EDT
you are a very strong person and i wish everyone was like you. i was diagnosed with hiv two years ago and found it hard to imagine but now i think i am one of the lucky one because i had a choice of taking medication when someone didn't. i am a full time social worker but i have chosen to keep it to myself and i find it okay at the moment. with time i will tell my family and friends. but the negativity still stuck in their brains makes me shut up at the moment. i admire you and thank God for who you are. bless you

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