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Lap Dances

Posted by Anonymous, 2 Replies
I was in New Zeland recently and went for a lap dance. All the while during the dance I had my clothes on and she was naked. The thing that worries me is that at one point of time I could feel the vagina of the girl on the shaft of my penis through... Read more »

Lap Dance

Posted by vworried123, 2 Replies
I am worried. For some stupid reason I had a private lap dance on Holiday and I got just a bit more. I flicked my tongue over her breast and nipple for about a second, kissed her skin, and licked quickly up her bum crack twice totally a few seconds.... Read more »

Are There Risks in Receiving Lap Dances?

Posted by Anonymous, 2 Replies
Do any of you think that lap dances are risky? Say the man is clothed and the dancer is wearing a very skimpy g-string? Is it possible for her fluids to soak down beneath the man's pants? IS it even posisble for him to get traces of vaginal fluids... Read more »

Are Lap Dances Harmless? Is Testing Needed?

Posted by Anonymous, 1 Reply
Hi. I am wondering whether lap dances, where a woman wearing a thong, t back, or g-string, rubs her self, including at times her genitals, against a clothed customer, whether or not that is risky for HIV or other STDs? I thought that if they were... Read more »

Lap Dance, HIV?

Posted by Anonymous, 4 Replies
I feel embarassed posting this question but I need some input. A few nights ago I went to a strip club with a friend where I got a lap dance. This is when the dancer dances on your lap and occassionally grinds your penis with her buttocks. Anyways,... Read more »
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Lap dance and hand job

I was at a bar and the woman dancing performed a lap dance on me, she was completely nude and i was fully clothed, i noticed stains of fluids from her on my pants afterwards. Later she offered me a handjob and her hand was mixed with her genital...
Lisa Hightow-Weidman, M.D., M.P.H.

Response from Lisa Hightow-Weidman, M.D., M.P.H.

University of North Carolina
Hello thereThere is no way to acquire HIV from a lap dance. HIV can not be transmitted through clothing. Similarly hand jobs are not considered to be a risk for HIV. There is no exchange of body fluid with anyone. See HIV101 for more info on how... Read more »

Lap dance followed by swollen lymph nodes

Hi, I went to a strip club about a month ago and had a lap dance. The dancer nibbled on my right ear lobe (could feel licking and saliva on my ear lobe) and she breathed in my ear. Then she playfully bit my member through my pants (wasn't hard...
Shannon Southall

Response from Shannon Southall

Rocky Mountain CARES
HIYou cannot get HIV from kissing or licking your ears, or from a lap dance or stroking through your clothes. HIV transmission only happens when there is a direct exchange of body fluid, semen, vaginal fluid, blood or breast milk. There was fluid... Read more »

lap dance

My friends recently took me to a strip club, where I received a lap dance. I was fully clothed and she was in a g-string. During the dance she placed my hands on her bare buttocks. After returning home, I masturbated and then showered. Am I at risk...
Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation
Hi,You may well be "guilt-ridden and scared" after being ridden by the Bouncy Betty at the Badda Bing, but you are not at risk for STDs, including HIV, OK?Dr. Bob... Read more »

lap dancing

My husband recently confessed to having a lap dance in the past. He admitted to coming. Is this typical? and do I have anything to worry about? ...
Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation
Hello,"Is this typical?" Is what typical? That your husband had a lap dance? How would I know? You'll have to get that information from him. If you're wondering if lap dances are common, the answer would be an unqualified... Read more »
U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

HIV Prevention at Swaziland's Reed Dance

Swaziland's annual Reed Dance is a ceremony in which bare-breasted teenage girls from across the country dance before the royal court. King Mswati III -- Africa's last ruling monarch, who already has 13 wives -- has in the past selected a new... Read more »
U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

Florida: "Reaching the Surface" Raises HIV/AIDS Awareness With Music, Dance

Dance, music, and the spoken word will be employed in the cause of HIV prevention at upcoming performances in Miami. "Reaching the Surface" is targeted toward minorities and youth at risk for HIV/AIDS. Ronderrick Mitchell, a New World School of the... Read more »


You and Your Meds: The Dance of a Lifetime If you miss too many steps in the dance called adherence, your treatment could stumble and so could your health. Basics on Adherence Tips and Advice Personal Accounts News and Research "What... Read more »
U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

Pennsylvania: Teaching HIV Prevention With Music, Dance

Over the coming months, the AIDS group Philadelphia FIGHT's Youth Health Empowerment Project (Y-HEP) will be partnering with the Netherlands-based "dance41ife" program to teach HIV prevention skills at local schools and youth organizations. ... Read more »