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unproted anal sex with a HIV + guy

Hi Dr. Frascino,I have had unprotected anal sex but stopped soon after, and I asked the guy to put on a condom. During sex he bit my nipples making them tender and ejaculated on to my chest. 3 weeks later I had a flu, didn't have fever but had...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hey James,Your risk is brief unprotected receptive anal sex without ejaculation, but with someone who you later found out was HIV-positive. This does qualify as a risk exposure. The fact that it was brief and that he did not ejaculate inside you... Read more »

Red spot and oral sex?

Hello Dr. BobFirst off, I would like to thank you for being such a positive presence on the web and for taking time out of your day to entertain and answer questions from people such as myself. My question pertains to oral sex: a couple of weeks...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello Orlando Oral Guy,Another married man with a dry as a bone boner . . . . Hmmm . . . that's the third one this week from Florida. Maybe Minnie (Katharine Harris) and Goofy (Jeb Bush) are putting something in the water at... Read more »

(worried) unprotected anal sex?

Dr Kull, I am a man, and I recently had unprotected anal sex. I was the (bottom) with an older man in his sixies. He assured me he was HIV negative, and was checked every six months. We had sex twice, and it was my first experience with a man. He...

Response from Ryan M. Kull, C.S.W

Columbia University's Health & Related Services

First of all, anal sex does not "create" HIV. That's a myth that has no scientific merit. You can only become infected with HIV by being exposed to an HIV infected person's bodily fluids, namely blood, semen, or vaginal... Read more »

anal sex with a hi+ 6 months ago and im negative im still worried

Hi doctor my name is alex I'm gay well my problem is that I had anal sex with an hiv+ poz guy he never told me about his status till we saw each other for the last time well we had sex like 4 times he never come inside me so when I was in the...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello. Your repeatedly negative HIV-antibody tests out to six months plus your undetectable NAAT are conclusive, definitive and WOO-HOO-able. HIV is not your problem. No way. No how. No, HIV is not lying dormant. No, HIV cannot "come out"... Read more »

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Anal Sex w/ my HIV+ Boyfriend

Posted by Escape, 1 Reply

Shortly after I met my partner we found he was HIV+. I have continued to test negative. When we met he said he was versatile, to me this is very important as I do occasionally like to receive. I understand the need to be safe, but he was not... Read more »

Protected receptive anal sex

Posted by AnthonyMC, 1 Reply

Hello.

I'm a heterosexual guy but more or less 2 months ago I did something I will never forgive myself for, regardless of whether I got infected with something or not: I had receptive anal sex with a transexual sex worker.

Now, the intercourse was... Read more »

husband wanted anal sex

Posted by Sungirl, 1 Reply

When I was married to my husband, (I am divorced now)
all he wanted was anal sex. He would not listen to my desires when I expressed them and I didn't like having anal sex. He was my first sexual partner and I was very naive and didn't know how to... Read more »

anal sex=HIV?

Posted by Anonymous, 1 Reply

I just read something suggesting that maybe AIDS is the result of drugs and anal sex. Think about this: you are having a foreign substance shot into your bloodstream--after so much fighting off "invaders" or semen maybe the immune system is... Read more »

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