Im A Negative Bottom And My Partner Is Positive

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Im a poz bttm and partner is a neg (POSITIVE BOTTOM AND NEGATIVE TOP RISK)

Im a poz bttm homosexual male (Taker only) and partner is a neg top (Giver only), since the anas has no bodily fluids, what are the real risks of unprotected sex for him??? Reason i ask is we want to be close to one another without that barrier...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello,This question comes up frequently and I've addressed it numerous times before. Check the archives! In this case, as in many others, the "real answer" and the "medical answer" are one and the same. See below.Dr.... Read more »

Negative Top, Positive Bottom

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Negative Top, Positive Bottom

Dr. Bob,I know you've answered this type of question several times before, but I'm... Read more »

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One partner Positive, One negative

Posted by Anonymous, 4 Replies

I would appreciate communicating with someone who is in hetrosexual relationship where one member is hiv+ and one hiv-. New to this don't know where to start for information. Would also appreciate e-mails.

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Top (-) bottom (+) Can the top get it ?

Posted by Anonymous, 3 Replies

My boyfriend is neg.(Top) i'm bottom and (+) his dream is have sex with his loved one without condom,is the risk high for him to get it???
If i don't bleed during the penetration and he doesn't have a hurt on his penis can he get the virus??
Any help... Read more »

John, Bottom line, Jackie

Posted by Anonymous, 1 Reply

I sure hope I'm negative. I can't believe this fear. It's so strong. I hate to think that because I messed up ONCE in my life that I would get HIV. I've been through so much as it is I'm not sure I could handle this on top of it. Things are going... Read more »

NEGATIVE-POSITIVE SEX

Posted by Anonymous, 4 Replies

I previously posted this in The Gay Men section... with a bit more to it... but I believe I asked too many questions or too many directions.. so I'm going to try again, more direct at the real issue I'm concerned with :)

So I've been positive for the... Read more »

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