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Dating An Hiv Positive Gay Guy

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HIV Positive Gay Dating / Dating Gay Men with Herpes

Posted by pozlady is an anonymous, warm-hearted and exclusive community offers dating and friendship options for people with a wide variety of personal preferences including interracial, gay, lesbian and bisexual singles and others with HIV and... Read more »

HIV Positive Gay Dating for HIV Gay Men and Bisexual Men

Posted by Hneedlove is The first, completely anonymous and most trusted online network dedicated to gay men and bisexual men with HIV positive meeting new friends, partners or potential spouses in the world.

Over 20% gay and bisexual men are... Read more »

any free dating sites for hiv gay people!!!

Posted by keeponliving, 13 Replies
just tested positive, n life is changed thoroughly! lost my lover,he just ran away after i told him that am infected hiv.dunno where to turn now. anyone can help me !!!! Read more »

Poz Gay, Hiv Positive Gay Men Find gay with hiv at

Posted by Chloe1023
Over 20% gay and bisexual men are living with hiv positive in the U.S. alone. Are you one of them? If you are HIV Gay or Gay men with herpes it can make you feel like you are all alone in the world. Do you wish there was a place where you didn't... Read more »

Dating a Positive Guy.

Posted by thewoodenboy, 6 Replies
Hey there.
I have been seeing a guy for a couple weeks now. He just let me know that he is HIV+. The last thing I wanted to do was react negatively because I was so thankful that he was comfortable telling me. He informed me that he is taking his... Read more »
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dating my first positive gay man

Hi,iam a 45 yrd old man,who just started having a relationship with a gay hiv+man.My problem is i felt more anxiety than i thought i would,during sex he ejaculated on my bare chest,i was alittle upset.What are the chances of transmitting the...
Robert H. Remien, Ph.D.

Response from Robert H. Remien, Ph.D.

Columbia University
Risk of transmission of HIV from the behavior you describe is extremely low (see the forum on Safe Sex, HIV Prevention and Transmission on the website of The Body). Anxiety when having sex is not fun and needs to be addressed. You and your partner... Read more »

I just found out a guy I'm dating is positive

I just found out the guy I have been dating is positive. We have had sex four times. He was the top and says he's on meds, viral load undetectable for 10 years and that hiv transmission is not likely. Is it probable that I will contract HIV...
Richard Cordova III

Response from Richard Cordova III

Test Positive Aware Network
Hi there:It's possible, but not probable. He is undetectable, which lowers the likelihood of transmission, but it does not eliminate it. When you have unprotected penetrative sex without a condom you are taking a risk, especially if the person... Read more »

Surgeon dating a great guy who is positive

(Sorry I think I may be sending this twice) It has been a whirlwind over the past 3 years since I came out. Abusive boyfriend, drugs, recovery, ... I am a 29 yo practicing plastic surgeon who is "out" at work. I dated a guy last year...
Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation
Hi,You're a 29-year-old practicing plastic surgeon? Wow, how did you get through your residency so quickly?You ask, "Do my sexual practices seem appropriate or reasonable for a discordant couple?" Ultimately only you can answer that... Read more »

A guy I'm dating is HIV+

Hi Dr. Bob!I'm new to your site and I Love it! My question is: A guy I'm dating is positive as am I (15 yrs now). He says his doctor told him since his viral load is undetectable and t-cells are in normal range that unprotected sex with...
Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation
Hi,Yep, that's B.S.! Cases of secondary infection with more aggressive viral strains have now been well documented. Yes, a non-detectable viral load decreases the risk of viral transmission somewhat, but certainly not completely. Perhaps... Read more »

Dating Resources: Can You Still Find Love and Companionship When You Are HIV Positive? The Answer From Our Panelists? A Resounding Yes!

The following contains resources you can use to get out there! U.S. Dating Sites for HIV-Positive Gays or Straights Positive Love Free to join HIV Passions Free Fees charged for most features Planet POZ Personal ads... Read more »

Positively Sexy: Volttage Provides an Online Space for Dating and Expression

For HIV-positive gay men, the dating world can be a difficult forest to navigate. In a community that can be heavy on the positive stigma, having to divulge your status and wait for the other guy to "be OK" with it can get old really fast. Enter... Read more »
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Ask Danny: Dating Advice for Gay Men

Who should make the first move? How do I tell if he has a boyfriend? When do I disclose that I'm HIV-positive? Where can I go to meet Mr. Right besides a gay bar, and how will I tell the difference between Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now? As a... Read more »

This Month in HIV: Sex and Dating When You're HIV Positive

My name is Bonnie Goldman and I'm editorial director of The Body. I'd like to welcome you to This Month in HIV. This month's subject? Dating when you're HIV positive. Dating when you're HIV negative is a challenge. Dating when you're HIV positive ... Read more »