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Lap Dance

Posted by vworried123, 2 Replies

I am worried. For some stupid reason I had a private lap dance on Holiday and I got just a bit more. I flicked my tongue over her breast and nipple for about a second, kissed her skin, and licked quickly up her bum crack twice totally a few seconds.... Read more »

first and last lap dance of my lifetime

Posted by Anonymous, 10 Replies

3 weeks ago I went to a strip bar with my friends, being my first time, friends bought me a lap dance. During the dance, I sucked on her nipples for few seconds, kissed her ears by the ear ring (not dry) and finally she slipped her tongue into my... Read more »

Lap Dance, HIV?

Posted by Anonymous, 4 Replies

I feel embarassed posting this question but I need some input. A few nights ago I went to a strip club with a friend where I got a lap dance. This is when the dancer dances on your lap and occassionally grinds your penis with her buttocks. Anyways,... Read more »

Lap Dances

Posted by Anonymous, 2 Replies

I was in New Zeland recently and went for a lap dance. All the while during the dance I had my clothes on and she was naked. The thing that worries me is that at one point of time I could feel the vagina of the girl on the shaft of my penis through... Read more »

Are Lap Dances Harmless? Is Testing Needed?

Posted by Anonymous, 1 Reply

Hi. I am wondering whether lap dances, where a woman wearing a thong, t back, or g-string, rubs her self, including at times her genitals, against a clothed customer, whether or not that is risky for HIV or other STDs? I thought that if they were... Read more »

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Lap dance with stripper, advise for the symptoms I am having

I went to a strip club and had a private lap dance with a stripper. The stripper kissed me on my lips and I reciprocated but the kiss lasted for about 5 seconds, (tongue). Then she rubbed her vagina on my face and I kissed it with my lips (2 secs)....

Response from Shannon Southall

Rocky Mountain CARES

HIYour risk of HIV transmission from your encounter is very small. Oral sex carries the lowest risk of HIV transmission.The symptoms you are describing can be from other sexually transmitted infections or just another virus or bacteria.I would... Read more »

Lap Dance with a hand job and quite worried

Dr. Bob,I went to a strip club and fortunately had a condom on in the event a stripper grinded me so as not to have a mess to clean up. Anyway she did a lap dance for me and then asked if I wanted a hand job. Being dumb I said yes. What I am...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello,Well, as they always say, "sex is cleaner with a packaged wiener." Dude, you went to the Badda Bing with a cover on your monkey. Was there really ever any doubt you were planning to get spunky?Regarding HIV risk from your bump and... Read more »

lap Dance...very much worried

I have been for lap dance 3-4 times. The incident that worries me is given below. During the lap dance, I was wearing my innerwear and a Jeans, and shirt. The girl was wearing a G string, During the dance, due to her continuous rubbing of her...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello,Ginny G-string rubbed her "virginal fluid" on your "pennies region" and you "cumed" at the area of your side pocket???? Although something might have gotten lost in translation here, I think I understand your... Read more »

My first lap dance worries me

Dear Dr. Frascino: Thank you so much for providing such valuable advocacy. Sir, I would be extremely grateful if you could please help me with my anxiety. It is killing me. I am 24 years old and have never had any sexual contact with anyone in my...

Response from Robert J. Frascino, M.D.

The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation

Hello Ajay,You're 24 and you've never had any sexual contact??? Gosh! No wonder you're "petrified and emotionally disturbed too!" Are you a graduate from one of those abstinence-only sex-education courses Dubya and his... Read more »

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