My Fabulous Disease
A Special Anniversary Episode
A Video Blog
By Mark S. King
March 2, 2011
"When Mark first started My Fabulous Disease, I was pretty sure it was going to directly result in the destruction of humanity. One year later, we're all still here. I can't believe I lost that bet."
Myles Helfand, Editorial Director
My father always said, "Raise your hand. Ask the stupid questions. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself." If he isn't rolling in his grave today, he's certainly shifting a little, because if there's one thing I've tried to do with my blog it has been to ask basic questions of others -- and reveal everything I can of myself. The result has been a really gratifying experience sharing my life as an HIV-positive gay man in recovery from addiction.
My Fabulous Disease: A Special Anniversary Episode
"Your blog provides a limpid stream of good advice and optimism for anyone who stumbles into it. Your take on living with HIV is clearly the only one worth having, because you manage to inspire and annoy exactly the right people."
Gus Cairns, Editor
HIV Treatment Update
One year ago, I premiered my ongoing written and video Web site, "My Fabulous Disease," but make no mistake, my own site was birthed and nurtured by the talented staff of TheBody.com. I have been contributing to TheBody.com for more than a decade as a writer, and producing videos for the last several years. For that I am indebted to Bonnie Goldman, the founding editor of TheBody.com, and to the current Community Manager, Olivia Ford.
"A year of My Fabulous Disease isn't nearly enough. You've had the courage to address publicly, with your words and videos, the stuff a lot of gay men and people with HIV are accustomed to only thinking about."
Sean Strub, Founder
In this special video episode, I have some fun answering the most frequently asked questions about my videos -- and what it has been like exposing myself, figuratively speaking, to all of cyberspace. The bottom line: It has been an honor to reveal, report, and ruminate on life's challenges and joys as an HIV-positive man.
"Here's to many more years of Mark's disarmingly honest, charmingly sincere, frequently bittersweet, and, above all, community empowering video blog."
Edwin J Bernard, Journalist and Blogger
I realize I'm not exactly an expert in the science of HIV or even a lot of the psycho/social issues involved. What I am, though, is curious. So I've tried to trust my own instincts and "ask the stupid questions" my Dad was talking about. Whether it was meeting teens
at the AIDS conference in Vienna, exercising with fitness expert Nelson Vergel
, or interviewing activists at the recent summit
on the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP), I let my curiosity guide me.
"Happy Birthday to My Fabulous Disease! You're just what the doctor ordered."
Robert Breining, Founder
POZIAM Social Network
Sure, I've bombed a few times with my videos. It's been a learning process, and sometimes I misjudged a topic somehow, or just plain create a boring episode. Trust me -- or ask anyone here at TheBody.com, because they know how I worry -- I keep close tabs on the comments and on the number of hits. And I'm constantly second guessing my choices. As much as I want to trust my instincts alone, I can't help but want to be popular.
"I feel as if My Fabulous Disease is a sister site to "my glamorous HIV" way of life. More importantly, you've been able to create much needed dialogue within the community, and provide information with substance. We love you up here in Canada."
Brian Finch, Founder
The episodes that mean the most to me have been the ones which were the most personal and didn't even focus on my HIV (like "Facing Change," about leaving Atlanta to renew a relationship, or "Taking Care of Hal," about caring for my dying brother), or the ones that were the most practical and instructive (like "A Facial Wasting Update" about my facial filler process, or helping people select the best physician in "Six Tips for Choosing Your HIV Doctor").
"You and your blog are such an inspiration to others whether they are infected with HIV or someone who is still negative. We are also proud to have you as one of our Dab the AIDS Bear's Ambassadors of Hope!"
Dab Garner, Founder
Dab the AIDS Bear Project
Along the way I have had the honor to meet people working as activists and elected officials and advocates around the world. How can I not be grateful and happy when I meet such smart and dedicated people? I know our HIV/AIDS crisis isn't rosy and I know people are suffering. I also know without a doubt that we are in committed, loving hands the world over.
"Laughter and lightness of heart have made a comeback in my life, thanks to your nutty taste. I have been reminded often that although our common condition is life (and death), it is no longer life OR death."
"On The Ten" Treatment Education Network
Let me leave you with this: We all have a story to tell. It is the story of how HIV/AIDS has affected our lives. Please, my friend, please tell it. Write an article or speak out on World AIDS Day. If you're more private, maybe you could just explain to a nephew what it was like when you once lost a friend to AIDS. Maybe it is as simple as asking your friends if they have been tested lately, and why it means something important to you.
There are so many people who write me, and they thank me for giving their experience a voice, because they cannot speak out. If you are blessed with the opportunity and ability to share your experience, then please join me. There is so much room, so much loving space in this world, for your voice and your story.
You don't even have to dress in drag when you tell it. It just helps.
Please be well,
"If Albert Schweitzer and Joan Rivers had a son, it would be you! Healing and outrageous all at once. Keep 'curing' us with 'My Fabulous Disease.'"
Chris Glaser, Author
"The Final Deadline: What Death Has Taught Me about Life"
"Happy Birthday! You are doing such a great job at portraying the face, humor and humanity behind a terrible disease that will continue to proliferate in our community if people like you don't continue to remind the rest of us that it still exists."
Zack Rosen, Editor
The New Gay
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