Maria T. Mejia
Time to Show My Face and Take the Stigma Away
Tengo VIH y Soy un Ser Humano
16 de octubre de 2013
Sé que que muchas personas saben que tengo el VIH ... pero al mismo tiempo como que se les olvida que lo tengo porque no me veo enferma. el #VIH no tiene rostro ... Piensen antes de escribirme porfavor,tengo sentimientos y soy un ser humano.Tengo gente que me dice ... WOW! Si tuviera el #VIH me mataría ... o yo tenía muchos amigos con VIH que están todos muertos ya ... es probable que te queden solo 5 años más de vida?? COMO???? NO! SÓLO CUANDO MI MISIÓN ESTE COMPLETA me iré a la luz! otros no son ni #VIH positivos y me estresan diciendo "Creo que soy positiv@ y estoy deprimido!hagansen el exmen porfavor!! y muchos ya salieron negativos en la prueba de elisa y siguen pensandoque lo tienen y se obsesionan!! USTEDES SON NEGATIVOS ... no me estresen mas con lo mismo!! Y RECUERDEN QUE tengo VIH? ... así que por favor ... NO SOY médico! soy sólo una persona que lucha contra el estigma y la educacion de esta condicion ! ... pero al final del día ... Tengo #VIH y soy #HUMANA
I Have HIV and I Am Human
October 16, 2013
I know most people know I have HIV ... but at the same time they forget I have it, because I do not look sick. HIV has no face ... think before you write me please ... I have feelings! I have people telling me, 'Oh wow, if I were to find out I am poz ... I would kill myself!!' or 'I had many friends with HIV, they are all dead now, you probably have 5 more years left???' REALLY? NO! ONLY WHEN MY MISSION IS COMPLETE, I WILL GO TO THE LIGHT! Others are not even HIV positive and stress me out "I think I am poz and I am depressed! "GO GET TESTED" Some tested negative and still think they have HIV!!! YOU ARE NEGATIVE..STOP STRESSING ME OUT over what you do not have!! AND REMEMBER I DO HAVE HIV! So please, don't act like you're talking to a DOCTOR! I am just a person that fights against stigma and educates everyone! But at the end of the day, I have HIV and I am HUMAN.
Life Is a Path of Roses Full of Thorns
September 5, 2013
Never limit yourself!! Dream big!! Believe in yourself! No matter what cards you were dealt with, make the best out of any situation. LOVE BIG!! LIVE INTENSELY!! Accept the struggles and overcome them with dignity and without the need of being bitter or selling yourself or your soul. Nothing lasts forever so embrace everything and everyone.
La Vida es un Camino de Rosas Llenos de Espinas
5 de septiembre de 2013
Nunca te limites! Suena en grande! Cree en ti mismo! No importa que cartas te ha dado la vida ... saca lo mejor de cualquier situación. AMA EN GRANDE! VIVE INTENSAMENTE! Acepta las luchas y superalas con dignidad y sin la necesidad de ser amargad@ o venderte a ti mismo o tu vender tu alma nada dura para siempre, así que abraza fuerte a todo y a todos.
Change Starts With the Man in the Mirror
August 28, 2013
This world makes me so sad. All I see is destruction and people arguing. We are all one!! We are the human race! The end of times are not here yet (in my belief) and we're already turning on each other.
El Cambio Empiesa con el Hombre en el Espejo
28 de augusto de 2013
Este mundo me hace muy triste. Todo lo que veo es la destrucción y personas discutiendo. ¡¡¡Todos somos uno somos la raza humana el final de los tiempos no estan aquí todavía (en mi opinión) y ya estamos poniendonos los unos en contra de los otros!!!
Why Am I so Open About Having HIV?
August 13, 2013
Many write me from all over the world with the same question: How can I be so open about having HIV? How did I get the courage to be so open?? How can they get to where I am?? My response is always the same: I have NO SHAME! There is nothing wrong with having HIV!
Porque Soy Tan Abierta de Tener el Virus del VIH?
13 de agosto de 2013
Muchos me escriben de todo el mundo con la misma pregunta ... ¿Cómo puedo ser tan abierta acerca de tener VIH? ¿Cómo puedo tener el valor de ser tan abierta? ¿Cómo pueden llegar a donde estoy yo? Mi respuesta es siempre la misma! Yo no tengo vergüenza! No es nada malo tener VIH!
My Interview With an International Women's Website
July 3, 2013
I was very honored to be featured on Fanm Kanson Network. As many of my interviews are equally important, I get contacted through my activism page (as Maria HIV Mejia) on Facebook, YouTube, Twitter and my blogs. Many ask me how I get to do these interviews, etc. Basically I am relentless in social media ... every day, no matter where I am and what I am doing. This gives me a presence in social media, and important campaigns, websites, radio, TV and magazines contact me.
Why Doctors Injected HIV Into a Dying Girl
June 24, 2013
Isn't it AMAZING that a little girl who was sentenced to death had the HIV virus injected in her and she is now healthy and alive? I know the cure for some cancers and HIV is coming ... I feel it and I am crying tears of Joy for her and for myself and millions around the world. Isn't it ironic that a disease that has been stigmatized -- so much ignorance around the HIV virus and so, so much discrimination -- is actually saving lives and who knows how many with cancer such as this little angel will be saved? The once ostracized HIV patients like myself and what some called as 'the ones CURSED by GOD' will help others with cancer? so Ironic..so beautiful..so good to finally be talked about in a loving and positive way! Imagine that!!! HIV PATIENTS SAVING CANCER PATIENTS THAT HAVE NO HOPE! Hope and faith is something I will never lose ...
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Time to Show My Face and Take the Stigma Away
Maria T. Mejia
I am a Colombian female who lives in Miami, Florida. I've been positive for 20 years. Although almost all my life I've been in long-term relationships with HIV-negative men, I am happily married to a woman who is wonderful and caring. We have been together almost three years and she is HIV negative. I have no children but we will look into having! I am an activist, a peer educator, a caregiver. I volunteered for the Red Cross in education for the Hispanic HIV community and also the American community. I was a pre- and post-test counselor. I have spoken in many conferences and done a lot of outreach in the community, especially in the schools for prevention and education. It is part of my everyday life to educate everyone I can on this subject. Being HIV positive is nothing to be ashamed about! We are strong women, and we will take away all the stigmas slowly but we have to open up.
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