Congressional Black Caucus Meets Sisterspeak on AIDS
By Candace Y.A. Montague
September 22, 2010
A Parent's Story
On the family panel was Bobby Henry, Sr., CEO of the Westside Gazette Newspaper (Florida) and his daughter 39-year-old Yolonda Reed. Yolonda was diagnosed as HIV positive an the age of 17 when she signed up to enter the Air Force. Bobby tearfully reminisced hearing the news for the first time. "When I first got the call that Yolonda was HIV positive I began to question. I was 16 when she was born and she was 17 when she told me her status. I wasn't there enough in the early years emotionally. Would she have contracted it if I was there more?" They insist that the HIV diagnosis actually brought them closer together and has prepared Yolonda to talk about it with her teenage sons. "Young people see people living with this disease. They think it's not a big deal. But I talk to my sons about this. I tell them 'you don't want to live like this'," states Yolonda.
Teresa Brown recalled when her son Marteniz told her he was HIV positive in 1998. Marteniz, then 18 years old, was preparing to go into the military when he got the news. "He was looking at me funny for a few days. Then one day he said 'Mom, I have HIV'. I hugged him and kissed him on the mouth. I told him no matter what I'm, going to be there. When my boyfriend stopped playing basketball with Marteniz on Saturday mornings, I told him 'you got your hat. Now get your coat'. I kicked him out," says Teresa. She and Marteniz are now spokespersons for the national Greater Than AIDS campaign.
The Experts Weigh-In
The diverse group of panelists discussed various stumbling blocks for African-Americans regarding AIDS. Lack of consistent discussions and messages were offered up a some reasons why AIDS continues to sweep through the population. According to the panel and the audience, there is not enough discussion about AIDS in homes, on historically black college campuses, or outside of the HIV community. "We have to have authentic conversations. We have to tell our stories," says Janet Cleveland, deputy director for prevention programs in the DIvision of HIV/AIDS Prevention at the Center for Disease Control. Dr. Bambi Gaddist raised the point that people must take charge of their health and keep doctors on thier toes. "We are not holding our physicians accountable. We have not taken possession of our bodies and of ourselves." Dr.Veronica Jenkins, medical director at Family and Medical Counseling Services, quickly interjected that doctors are holding themselves accountable but the patients must speak up. "If you are with a physician to which you cannot speak of your most intimate details, then you are with the wrong physician," stated Dr. Jenkins.
There was no discussion of a follow-up or other events where the dialogue about HIV/AIDS will continue. And no solutions or resolutions were drawn either. So, for now, the issue will continue its cyclical route at forums where informed people talk only to one another.
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Candace Y.A. Montague
Candace Y.A. Montague has been learning about HIV since 1988 (and she has the certificates from the American Red Cross to prove it). Health is a high priority to Candace because she believes that nothing can come of your life if you're not healthy enough to enjoy it. One of her two master's degrees is in Community Health Promotion and Education. Candace was inspired to act against HIV after seeing a documentary in 2008 about African-American women and HIV. She knew that writing was the best way for her to make a difference and help inform others. Candace is a native Washingtonian and covers HIV news all around D.C. She has covered fundraisers, motorcycle rides, town hall meetings, house balls, Capitol Hill press conferences, election campaigns and protests for The DC Examiner.com and emPower News Magazine.
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