Swearing Off Sex: Statistics Show Most Teen Abstinence Vows Are Abandoned
January 27, 2010
Most teens who pledge to remain sexually abstinent until marriage break that vow within five years, studies show. Therefore, when former Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin's teenage daughter renewed her pledge recently before millions of "Oprah Winfrey Show" viewers, some experts responded skeptically.
Bristol Palin's pregnancy was announced just days after Republican presidential candidate John McCain chose the governor to be his 2008 running mate. On the show, Bristol declined Winfreys suggestion that she might take the opportunity to reconsider her abstinence pledge.
Winfrey asked whether Bristol had set an unrealistic goal. "It's a realistic goal for myself," the 19-year-old said.
"It may be 10 years before you get married," Winfrey said. "Why set yourself up so that everybody you go out with, you date -- the media is going to be looking at that person, trying to get that person to sell you out, to say, 'Did you have sex or not?' Its nobodys business when you chose to have sex."
"Abstinence works when it is used consistently and correctly," said Monica Rodriguez, vice president for training and education for the Sexuality and Information Council of the United States. "The problem is that abstinence isnt always used correctly, and when it fails, it has a really high failure rate."
However, abstinence-only sex education rarely discusses the proper use of condoms and other contraceptive means to avoid STDs and pregnancy, Rodriguez said. That discussion should begin at home. "Parents are the most important people in kids' lives in terms of this," she said. "You have to share your values."
01.25.2010; Russell Goldman, Sarah Netter
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