Discovery and Team WorkFall 1998 September 1998 marks the first anniversary of a discovery that changed my life forever. I am referring to the visit with my doctor and my AIDS diagnosis. As I have said before, I was the first person I knew of who had AIDS. This left me feeling quite alone and unprepared for my uncertain future.
I wish to express my deepest feelings of thanks and love to the members of the Women Alive Coalition. Love and SupportTheir love and support has guided me through a year filled with fear and anxiety. The wonderful little converted house on S. Burnside has felt like a home away from home. I feel as if I am among friends who have somehow become family. We all care so much for each other. I can nourish my spirit here and replenish my willpower just by dropping by. Team SpiritI like to think of everyone helping me as being members of my team, Team Shelley. You all play an active part in my growth and healing. You have given of yourselves in an effort to guide me just as a team rallies behind its quarterback, watching out that I don't get blind sided or sacked. I Never Feel AloneThough I can't list all your names and what you do for me I would like to mention a few who stand out for going that extra mile. Aleece calls and sends those great pick-me-ups when I need them most. I just met Mary Lucey, the co-founder of Women Alive. There are volunteers who hold yoga classes, give us a massage once a week, and help run the office. Then there are those I join for Heterosexuals Too (or H2, as I call it). Everyone there is a Godsend for me. While I'm thanking my "teammates;" I'd like to include others not necessarily connected to Women Alive whom I consider vital to my on-going fight for a good life: My husband, Dan, my entire family, Dr. Galpin, Marcy Fenton RD, and everyone in my Monday support group -- well, you know who you are. It has been quite a year. I'm better now and I never feel alone. Thank you.
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