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HIV & Me: An African American's Guide to Living With HIV
Step 8: Gathering Strength From Others

People say that HIV is color blind -- and they're right. But let's not kid ourselves: HIV may be the same virus even if you're African American, but having it doesn't always mean the same thing. Read how HIV has transformed the lives of these brave people:

D'Jaun Black

"HIV changed me. It taught me to genuinely care for other people.

"Once I became comfortable being HIV positive I was comfortable with myself, period. I found myself making more friends, talking to more people. I really began to have a social life. Through HIV, I found socialization, something that I always lacked."

-- D'Jaun Black, diagnosed in 2004

To read more about D'Jaun, click here.

"For some people I've talked to, HIV changes their lifestyle -- now they feel healthier and are not abusing themselves anymore. That's what happened to me."

-- Precious Jackson, diagnosed in 1998

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Precious Jackson
Michelle Lopez

"HIV gave me lemons, so I made lemonade. And it's damn good lemonade!"

-- Michelle Lopez, diagnosed in 1991

To read more about Michelle, click here.

"HIV has changed my life totally. Keep your head up! HIV is not a punishment. ... Don't let it monopolize your life! It's very important that you learn to love yourself."

-- Regina Brandon, diagnosed in 1990

To read more about Regina, click here.

Regina Brandon
Bishop Kwabena Rainey Cheeks

"HIV reminds me to make every day count."

-- Bishop Kwabena Rainey Cheeks, diagnosed in 1984

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"The best response when I told someone I was HIV positive was from my daughter, who looked up at me with those little brown eyes she has and said, 'Well Daddy, no matter what happens to you, I will always love you.' After that, it's like, you know, who cares? Everybody else can take a number, because I'm all right now."

-- David Garner, diagnosed in 1993

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David Garner
Raven Lopez

"All the friends that I told, they all got emotional and started crying. But all of them, they said, 'No matter what, Raven, we will still love you and you will always be our friend.'"

-- Raven Lopez, diagnosed in 1991 at 18 months old

To read more about Raven, click here.

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Contents
  1. Did You Just Test HIV Positive?
  2. Step 1: Getting Smart About HIV
  3. Myth Vs. Reality
  4. Step 2: Getting Connected to Support
  5. Step 3: Finding Quality Health Care
  6. Programs to Help
  7. Step 4: Learning About HIV Treatment
  8. Step 5: Preparing to Start HIV Treatment
  9. Step 6: Choosing the Right HIV Treatment
  10. Step 7: Dealing With HIV Treatment
  11. Step 8: Gathering Strength From Others
  12. Step 9: Putting It All Together

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