More comprehensive or broader messages encompassing a greater number of sex-related topics that were delivered by the mother were associated with less sexual risk behavior among adolescents.1
Mothers who were skilled communicators about sex-related topics were more likely to discuss a broad range of sex-related topics with their adolescent, and were more likely to be heard by their adolescent during those discussions.2
When mother-child discussions were conducted in an open and responsive manner, greater discussions of sex and sexual risk promoted adolescents' communication with their partners about sexual risk and adolescents' condom use.3
Timing of mother-adolescent discussions about condoms is critical. Mother-adolescent communication was associated with greater condom use at first intercourse only when it occurred before the adolescent's first sexual encounter. Adolescents who talked with their mothers before their first sexual encounter were 3 times more likely to use a condom than adolescents who did not talk with their mothers. This is important because condom use at first intercourse strongly predicted future use. Adolescents who used condoms at first intercourse were 20 times more likely to use condoms regularly in subsequent acts.4
Not talking about sex can be consequential because adolescents can be influenced by other sources, such as peers. Adolescents who did not discuss sex or condoms with their mothers showed a stronger correspondence between peer norms and their own behavior compared with adolescents who did discuss sex or condoms with their mothers. This can be a problem if peers do not encourage responsible behavior.5
Findings from this research suggest important areas that can and should be addressed in HIV prevention interventions: delivering comprehensive messages, parental skill and sensitivity in discussing sex, and the timing of the communication.
Comprehensive messages are those that encompass discussion on a range of sexuality topics, such as sexual decision-making, menstruation, reproduction, physical/sexual development, when to start having sex, birth control, condoms, choosing sexual partners, masturbation, STDs, and HIV/AIDS.
Characteristics related to parental skill and sensitivity in discussing sex include having accurate information about the topics, talking openly and freely rather than lecturing or threatening, welcoming questions from the adolescent, and listening to the adolescent's concerns and feelings about the topics.
Sexuality education should begin early as part of a lifelong process of acquiring information and forming attitudes, beliefs, and values, rather than just "the talk." It encompasses learning about sexual development, reproductive health, interpersonal relationships, affection, intimacy, body image, and gender roles. Issues related to sexuality become more salient as sexual feelings emerge in early adolescence. The sexual foundation built within the family through verbal and nonverbal communication and modeling of attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors about sexuality plays an important role in fostering a sexually healthy adolescent.
The results underscore the significant role mothers can play in preventing HIV among adolescents and highlight the importance of parents being able to discuss sex in an open and responsive way. Programs should seek to involve parents in their children's HIV prevention education. In addition, separate programs that provide parents with skills and strategies to talk with their children about sexuality throughout childhood are of great value. These programs may be offered by a variety of organizations, including YMCAs/YWCAs, churches and synagogues, work sites, Parent-Teacher Associations (P.T.A.), and community-based organizations.
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What Every Teenager Really Wants to Know about Sex (book)
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