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Sluts, Stigma and PrEP

March 18, 2014

Alex Garneri

Alex Garner

When we talk about stigma and PrEP, the question we should be asking is, "Just what is it we are ashamed of?" Is it the sex? The gay sex? Or is it the realization that gay men find pleasure and fulfillment in anal sex and fluid exchange?

Didn't we have this conversation in the beginning of the epidemic, when the general public tried to make sense of what gay men do in bed? Jaws were agape and there was collective clutching of pearls when people realized that not only did we participate in acts seen as "deviant," but we really, really enjoyed them.

Many of the negative attitudes attached to PrEP -- the strategy of taking an antiretroviral pill every day to prevent HIV -- arise from the presumed sexual behavior of the person taking it. Some people believe that it will promote reckless sexual behavior or promiscuity, insisting that PrEP is only for so-called sluts, and that those on PrEP are just "Truvada Whores."

This moralizing only serves to undermine our efforts to promote the health and well-being of gay and bisexual men. "Promiscuity" is an arbitrary construct whose only purpose is to shame people for their sexual behavior. (One person's whore is another person's prude.) It's time to do away with the word, as it is about as timely as corsets and powdered wigs. The best way to push back against this sort of slut-shaming is to reclaim "slut," as we did with the word "queer."

There is no evidence to suggest that PrEP will increase risky behavior or lead to sexual anarchy. We've heard this all before. Condoms do not promote promiscuity, watching Glee doesn't turn kids gay, and listening to rap music doesn't make you a thug.

In the beginning of the epidemic, safer sex education was about giving people as much information as possible so they could make informed decisions about preventing HIV. But prevention education was constantly under attack from government, churches, and PTAs. Back then the condom was the culprit. The Catholic Church was, and still is, a staunch opponent of condoms. Activists heroically stood up to the church, as documented in How To Survive A Plague, because it was understood that denying people access to information and stigmatizing their sexuality was unjust and only made the epidemic worse. (Our movement is a history of sluts and deviants. Gay sluts don't just vote, we organize.)

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