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Two Minutes of Advice on Testing HIV Positive

A Video Blog

September 29, 2013

This is a clever social media campaign: Healthline, an online health community, has asked people who have been living with HIV to create videos for those who have recently tested positive, known as "You've Got This." Think of it as "It Gets Better" for those with HIV.

Of course, I had to create a video in my own peculiar way -- something that demonstrates the sense of humor that has served me well over the course of 30 years living with HIV. Maybe my video will help someone you know.

To be honest, I barely remember testing positive in 1985, when the test became publicly available (my doctor and I estimate my infection occurred as far back as 1981). I was already self-medicating with a growing drug addiction -- it was Los Angeles, I was young and stupid, and people started dying; cocaine seemed like a reasonable response at the time -- and the test result felt like my license to continue using.

Today, it's hard for me to recall a time in which I was afraid of becoming infected. I only know a life living with the virus, and my fears of HIV itself are long past. So I should probably approach any advice for the newly infected with care. They are experiencing a profound event that happened to me a lifetime ago. I hope my light touch will give them a needed lift or bring them a smile.

It's easy for me to make the mistake of assuming new infections only happen to younger people, and I even make an apologetic joke in the video about my being "old." The fact is, most new infections in the United States happen to people over 30, not under. We might want to check ourselves when we bemoan infections among "these kids today," (although of the various age groups with new infections, those under 30 remains the largest).

To participate in "You've Got This" with a video of your own, visit the Healthline site for details. Or leave your own word of advice in the comments section below!

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Mark S. King has been an active AIDS activist, writer and community organization leader since the early 1980s in Los Angeles. He has been an outspoken advocate for prevention education and for issues important to those living with HIV.

Diagnosed in 1985, Mark has held positions with the Los Angeles Shanti Foundation, AID Atlanta and AIDS Survival Project, and is an award-winning writer. He continues his volunteer work as an AIDS educator and speaker for conferences and events.

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