On Talking to Your HIV Meds, and Listening to Your Body
Part of the Series Other Sides of HIV: People Taking HIV Meds Share Stories About Side Effects
September 3, 2013
That takes being able to hold your medicine, look at it in your hand, and say: "You are coming into my space. You are coming into my body. You have a job and a task to accomplish while you're here. But this is what I also need you to understand: My kidneys are going to feel you; my liver is going to feel you; my intestinal tract is going to feel you. And, please, tread gently."
When you consciously have this approach with working with your medicines, it feels like you're working together as a team.
There are some different thoughts about diarrhea. My doctor was very open-minded to different approaches to deal with diarrhea. He said, "as long as you're hydrated and you're not moving too much water," I could try different approaches. But one thought is that antidiarrheal medicine is slowing down a natural process in which your body is trying to get rid of, and cleanse, and not absorb, certain things that would normally be absorbed. It's the body's way of saying, "This doesn't belong. I need to get rid of it now."
I did have the option to try to take things to help with nausea and diarrhea and stuff, but none of it really worked very well. And none of it seemed, spiritually, the best approach to deal with it. For me, the best approach was to understand that this was part of how my train works. It's the river of my body. There's going to be a lot coming in, and a lot going out.
Since I had children, I always had baby wipes with me. I was the kind of mom who always traveled with a clean pair of underwear and baby wipes. And if things got gross, I was trying to clean myself up, wherever. That felt better than trying to add more medicine, more chemicals, into a body that's already heavily taxed by trying to deal with the HIV meds.
The entire digestive system -- beginning from your mouth, down to your esophageal tract, your stomach, all the way through -- feels these medicines. Some of them do really taste like you're drinking toxic fluids made in some pharmaceutical factory somewhere. I think it was saquinavir [Invirase] that made everything taste really metallic. There was stuff that I just didn't want to eat anymore because everything just tasted metallic.
I can't compare this to what my body would be like if it were healthy, because I don't know. I have been living with an AIDS diagnosis almost as long as I've been alive as a healthy person. But most of my life then, I was a growing child. So, to remember what it felt like to have a normal digestive tract is really, really hard to recall.
I know that there are certain foods that I cannot eat. I cannot eat fast food. It goes right through me. I know that I have to be really careful what kind of water I drink. It has to be purified. I know that greasy foods, they seem to have a much harder time working through me. It's easy for me to get very clogged up, and for things to slow down.
I have to really watch and make sure that my fiber intake is good. There's definitely a fuzziness if you don't eat really, really well when you're taking these meds. If you don't eat enough fruits and vegetables and get enough good fiber and that kind of stuff, you have that "I'm medicated" feeling. You can instantly feel much more tired, and much more run down. I know that when I don't eat really well, I'm going to immediately feel very dull.
I'm probably younger than the normal time in life of having to look at issues like diabetes. I think that my pancreas is expressing its fatigue. I feel conscious that all of my organs are taxed really, really heavily and, therefore, that's why so much more water is important -- to keep things moving, and keep things going.
When I first saw my viral load become undetectable -- I want to say it was in 1999 -- I was absolutely thrilled. At that time, I was on the liquid form of Kaletra [lopinavir/ritonavir], Viread [tenofovir] and, I believe, Videx [didanosine, ddI]. It was like there was a thousand-pound ... I don't want to use the word burden, but there was something that I was carrying, and I didn't need to carry it anymore -- like I could finally stand up straight.
I felt lighter. I felt healthier. I felt like there were multiple levels and types of medicine ways that were working for me. It wasn't just Western medicine. It was Native medicine and good health, and having my mind in a good place so that I could deal with this. And that's what I wanted. I wanted to have this virus go to sleep.
I realized it wasn't gone. I realized I wasn't cured. But I knew that it lay there sleeping. It was dormant. Every mom can agree that taking care of a sleeping child is the easiest.
In my earliest of days, I had viewed having HIV as being like having a child. It was like having this life inside you, but it's a life you can't give birth to. It's the life that lives inside you. And I wanted to be very careful about not treading into the area of "kill." I didn't want to have it killed. I want it out of my body, but that's different from having something killed. Because I don't want death happening inside of me.
It's a complicated, very delicate approach you have to take. And it takes everything that you've got. You have to think wellness. You have to eat wellness. You have to surround yourself with people who are willing to be well, and that's hard to find.
And you have to commit to these meds. Learning to be adherent and taking meds every day, that was challenging. I'm not a morning person, and some of these meds were every four hours, every six hours, every 12 hours. Some stuff had to be refrigerated. Some stuff was liquid. It was a mess. And I am not the type of person who can follow a schedule very easily. So I had to have a series of alarm clocks to remind myself to take stuff. I had to be dedicated to it.
This article is part of a transcribed conversation between Shana Cozad and Olivia Ford, executive editor of TheBody.com and TheBodyPRO.com. It has been edited for clarity.
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