Twelve Steps to Positive Attitudes
By Reggie Smith
September 3, 2012
I have personally benefited from using the principles of this 12-step program for those of us who acknowledge that we are affected by HIV. I say "those of us who have acknowledged" because most, if not all of us, have been affected by HIV. Not everyone has come to terms with it, or has identified just how they are affected. Let's explore some of the scenarios with which YOU may be included in this demographic first, and then discuss whether this program may be right for you.
The program has been called HIV Anonymous for over 10 years, but because the stigma of HIV would not allow many people to get past the idea of being associated with, seen around, or connected to anything with HIV in the name or title, the name of the program is now "Positive Attitudes." Many people are affected because they have yet to deal with the trauma of lost loved ones. That is especially true for those whose families have been stigmatized to the point of hiding the fact that those loved ones were HIV+ prior to death.
Of course, if you are sexually active, you are eligible to become a host for HIV. The mere fact that sexually active people need to navigate the minefield of truth and reconciliation, with self and partners, is reason enough to be involved in a support group. What I have found is that our individualistic nature is something the HIV retrovirus is counting on in its quest to make YOU a host for HIV. The Positive Attitudes program is an answer to the question, "what is out there for the uninfected person?" Where can we all go to discuss the spiritual, emotional and mental issues and behaviors that make us humans such fertile ground for manifesting HIV?
Positive Attitudes is a 12-step support program adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous. It is a global network that offers unbiased support to people infected with, affected by, or at risk for HIV. There is a dire need to remove the stigma and face the fears and ignorance surrounding HIV & AIDS. This fellowship is helping to reduce the prejudice and discrimination against HIV-affected individuals. They are a fellowship of men and women who are committed to a way of life that will help fight the spread of HIV.
HIV Anonymous Public Service Announcement
The folks involved in Positive Attitudes support groups are not there to change you. They are not there to segregate or impose a particular belief system upon you. However, if you feel remorse that you have transmitted HIV to another person, or if you are concerned that your behavior could spread HIV, or maybe you just want to fellowship with other people who are living in balance and harmony with HIV and AIDS, then Positive Attitudes is for you.
There are thousands of sources telling you what to do -- and what not to do. Some sources claim that HIV causes AIDS and others claim that it does not. The folks at Positive Attitudes avoid getting caught up in scientific contention. We have experienced much suffering. We have seen too many broken hearts and too many people die to take one side in a scientific debate. They also emphasize Prevention for Positives, which includes prevention challenges specific to people already infected with HIV, such as re-infection with resistant strains of HIV, co-infection with hepatitis, TB, and STDs, denial of risk, health issues, and psychosocial issues. The choice to take medication for HIV or AIDS is a decision that each individual must make.
If you have seen yourself or a loved one in your minds eye wile reading this information, then your spirit is telling you that you read it for a reason. Do yourself a favor and start (or continue) listening to your spirit. Reach out to these folks to let them know they are on the right track as they are working to make this program available for you. They have a sister site for Hepatitis C with a bulletin board that is very active with treatment experienced people sharing their strength, hope and experience.
Hotline Phone: 949-264-4170
RISE4WAR -- Focusing on Wellness, Awareness and Recovery
Reggie and Dionne Smith
My name is Reggie Smith. My wife Dionne and I have lived with AIDS since 1984. I am HIV+, she is not. We have experienced the suffering of families affected by HIV. With the love and support of many, we have focused on sharing holistic healing solutions for the infected and affected in an effort to diminish the stigma and increase awareness about the unmet needs of U.S. families and surrounding HIV. You are most welcome to share with me here and at my website, ReggieSmith770.
Subscribe to Reggie's Blog:
May 24, 2013 - Is It Homophobia or "Heterophobia"? Tell Them That It's Human Nature. A Blog Entry by Reggie Smith
April 17, 2013 - Our Secrets Keep Us Sick: A Blog Entry by Reggie Smith
February 24, 2013 - HIV Is Not a Gift. HIV Is an Opportunity. A Blog Entry by Reggie Smith
October 1, 2012 - The Black Church, HIV and Love: A Blog Entry by Reggie Smith
September 21, 2012 - That's the Way of the World: A Blog Entry by Reggie Smith
A Brief Disclaimer:
The opinions expressed by TheBody.com's bloggers are entirely their own, and do not necessarily reflect the views of TheBody.com itself.