Print this page    •   Back to Web version of article

U.S. News
An X-Rated Lecture for Bubbe and Zayde Warns STDs Aren't Only for the Young

September 30, 2011

For more than a decade, Dianne Matthew has been conducting sex education programs for residents of gated senior communities in Boca Raton and Delray Beach. While delivering a serious message about STD prevention, Matthew uses humor to put the audience at ease: "I'll quote Mae West: She said, 'When I'm good, I'm very good, but when I'm bad, I'm better.'"


"I use blatant language," but "I try to keep it funny," said Matthew, a licensed clinical social worker affiliated with South Palm Beach County's Ruth Rales Jewish Family Service. "They're not 12-year-old virgins."

Matthew said she warns attendees that she will use frank language to get her prevention messages across. At a recent program, two women left when she broached the topic of oral sex. "I give them facts, not judgments," she said. "What's normal? Norm is the name of some guy in Brooklyn."

"I say to them, 'You have to look out for yourself; you think because you can't get pregnant, you don't have to be careful,'" Matthew said. "I think, in general, most people are surprised [by the message]. They think it's not going to happen to them. Most of the women were married to one man for 40 years. In their minds, STDs are for prostitutes."

"People don't believe that people over 60 are having sex, but they're a very sexually active group, especially with Viagra," Matthew noted.

Back to other news for September 2011

Excerpted from:
Jewish Daily Forward (New York City)
09.02.2011; Mary Jane Fine

This article was provided by CDC National Prevention Information Network. It is a part of the publication CDC HIV/Hepatitis/STD/TB Prevention News Update. You can find this article online by typing this address into your Web browser:

General Disclaimer: is designed for educational purposes only and is not engaged in rendering medical advice or professional services. The information provided through should not be used for diagnosing or treating a health problem or a disease. It is not a substitute for professional care. If you have or suspect you may have a health problem, consult your health care provider.