David Hoe, 67
"A man committed to transformational change and love."
How would you describe your health?
Very good but with joint pain and treatment-induced peripheral neuropathy that still are pains in the proverbial.
Are you experiencing any health issues from HIV or your HIV treatment?
I'm not sure if it's HIV-related, but I'm very concerned about memory and cognitive issues.
You appeared on the cover of the Fall/Winter 2005 issue, in which you were interviewed about sexual health. How is your sex life these days?
My sex life is evolving into deeper intimacy now that I am in a monogamous relationship. Merging our two erotic fields of different generations and cultures on a regular basis is like all other aspects of intimacy -- it is a constant exploration of play, spirit, stewardship and keeping it alive; sometimes it's messy and not always to do with fluids. However, one of the joys of aging is enhanced sexual fantasies, which teachings say I should anticipate getting even stronger as I age. Also, I'm still in pursuit of liberated erotic energy and am now more spiritual.
Since you appeared on the cover in 2005, what has changed for you personally?
In one word, describe this moment in AIDS.
Where do you see yourself 10 years from now?
Impishly sublime with a somewhat creaky body, still building a meaningful life.
What song is the soundtrack of your life?
"Somewhere" by Bernstein and Sondheim.