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Re: Would you want to know?
      10/11/12 09:36 PM

I'm sorry to hear your positive results.

Your questions are loaded, so I am going to tread carefully.

I think anger is getting the better of you, and you most certainly have a right to be angry, cause lets face it we all know the how, whether he will admit to it or not. But, does it change the positive results to have your answer? No, it won't. Will it make you feel better to know the specifics, probably not. I mean you sound like an intelligent person I'm sure you aren't falling from the "Who me, couldn't be" bull your husband is shelling out.

So the question you should be asking yourself now rather than how, is what.

What are you going to do to make sure you are healthy and happy?

Also your negative test from a year ago was accurate. HIV will show up in the vast majority of people within 3 months. Only exceptions are cancer patients on chemo/radiation and medical accidents. So it is a recent infection.

Good luck, but may I suggest leaving and staying at your parents or friends house for a few days till he gets his results and you figure out what you want to do. It will help you in the long run if you aren't in the situation and are able to think without him feeding you a line of crap.

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* Would you want to know? redheadmom 10/11/12 08:18 PM
. * Re: Would you want to know? Ofteemontly   10/16/14 07:18 AM
. * Re: Would you want to know? day1   08/08/13 01:30 PM
. * Re: Would you want to know? dreams123   10/16/12 01:31 AM
. * Re: Would you want to know? riverprincessModerator   10/13/12 12:08 AM
. * Re: Would you want to know? Bensgirlfriend2   10/12/12 02:44 PM
. * Re: Would you want to know? kicker   10/11/12 09:36 PM
. * Re: Would you want to know? JustAnn   11/02/12 04:56 AM

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