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Reged: 02/23/13
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Loc: Montreal, Canada
Re: oral sex positive-devastated
      02/23/13 10:41 PM

Hey, you're not alone. I just tested positive as well from oral sex, I was the one giving. I was completely floored! I went to the doctor around a month ago because I had what I thought was a bad flu. Anyway the doctor did some blood tests just to make sure everything looked right. He asked if I minded him doing an HIV test as well. I said go for it because I knew I hadn't done anything risky. Anyway 3 days ago his receptionist leaves a message on my phone that he would like to see me. I thought nothing of it. So I got in there and he started saying your iron is a little high, so are your liver enzymes, and oh yeah your hiv test came back positive. I was like WHAT??? That's basically impossible. I said I've only had oral sex once within the past 2 months. He said well its very unlikely you got it that way. He was like do you trust your partner (I have a partner of 5 years). And I was like 100%. He's like well maybe he should be tested and then you can see, basically telling me my partner was screwing around on me. Anyway my partner was tested the same day I found out and it came back negative so I for sure didn't get it from him. On December 3 2012 my bf and I invited a guy over for a threesome. We weren't really into him so we all just ended up sucking each other. When we all came later on it was on our chests, not in anyone's mouth. I had no idea it was possible to get hiv from oral. Well I should say I knew it was but I thought your odds were better at winning the lottery.

I really think they should stop telling people that its low risk. If anything I'd say its at least moderate risk. Either that or I'm just VERY unlucky! The doctors can't even believe that I got it like this. I'm still in shock and I think I will be for sometime.
Thanks for listening.

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* oral sex positive-devastated youtellme1 12/13/12 11:05 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated Mark100   02/23/13 10:41 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated ashler1977   02/24/13 03:27 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated ashler1977   02/24/13 03:23 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated Mark100   02/24/13 11:01 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated anonyme   02/10/13 01:45 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated Topaz   02/06/13 04:32 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated ashler1977   12/13/12 11:24 PM
. * Re: oral sex positive-devastated Polima   10/24/16 04:22 PM

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