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Any advice would be helpful
      05/25/12 09:58 PM

I tested positive a week ago. I've been seeing this absolutely AMAZING guy for about a month now. I was recently tested in March and came back negative. I had no idea I was positive, but unfortunately that is the case and I must deal. What I have to face tomorrow is telling my boyfriend who is currently away visiting his family. He gets back tomorrow and I plan on telling him immediately. I think this is probably scarier than actually finding out I was positive. The reason I am so scared is because the chances of me passing it to him are very high. We have been having unsafe sex since we have been together It's one thing for him to panic and leave me, but it's another thing for him to be positive also. I'm honestly so nervous and scared, I simply do not know how to handle it. I haven't even had time to digest the fact that I'M positive and MY life is changing because I have been so concerned about him and telling him. I love him so much and I don't know if I could live with myself. I also don't want him to abandon me, especially not now when I need him most. I feel like the days to come are going to be dark and lonely. Has anybody been faced with this?!

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* Any advice would be helpful anton2307 05/25/12 09:58 PM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful thebird1959   06/25/12 01:28 AM
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. * Re: Any advice would be helpful brooklynbaseball   06/07/12 08:35 PM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful tcocoa   06/10/12 01:54 AM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful DJones   06/07/12 05:18 PM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful PinupBoy   06/01/12 09:56 AM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful riverprincessModerator   06/01/12 12:41 PM
. * Re: Any advice would be helpful kicker   05/26/12 12:40 AM

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