ALTdad, welcome to TheBody.. Your are not alone. I know of many relationships such as yours that are productive and wonderful.. First things first. You are pos. Have you found a HIV DOC to start finding out how your body is reacting to the virus?? Of course letting anyone you have been "with" know,is important. It sounds like you have done this. The process is baby steps... Lets deal with one issue at a time. Right now is finding an HIV Doc that can help you. If you do not have one, contact your local ASO (Aids Service Organization) and they can help you find a doc.. Please continue to post HERE. Its going to work out, but give it time..
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