@ Living Poz:
I think you are being totally irresponsible, period. As POZ we shouldn't be having sex without disclosing our status. There are so many things that can happen, the condom may break, there may be small cuts in either partner's skin and we are definitely responsible for that. Now it looks like your lover may actually be a married guy and if he got infected it is very likely his partner, if he is indeed in a relationship, may get it too, so YOU are definitely robbing him of his choice although he should be more careful too. The real question is why if you have a POZ boyfriend are you sleeping around? I got infected because my partner cheated on me and I didn't know it until I got my test results so your attitude towards our condition really pisses me off. It is because of irresponsible people like you that there is so much stigma. Shame on you!