Thank you for your detailed answer. I stopped checking messages after a few ugly ones flew in, the forum-but I feel, that you really addressed the issue. I will now review all the notes, kindly sent.
I read recently 1 in 900 (MTF), was a current chance of infection. Notice I named my ID as INFO 411 not 911. I look at each post based on it's merit. Thank you again for writing.
I grew up in Canada, so I am glad you put the C word in your subject header. But that was a long time ago! It is also interesting to compare, CDN vs USA medical care and treatment. You can PM me anytime regarding that. I learned with an early AOL support group on HIV-"it is good to be vocal." Simply stated-communicate. I will re-read your letter, since it directly got to the heart of the matter.