Love is a beautiful thing. As many others on this forum has stated, love is built on trust. Honesty is so important. I got the virus from someone who said he loved me too. However, he never told me he was infected. He never gave me the choice or the knowledge so that I could protect myself. He forever altered my life. For many years I blamed myself for contracting the virus. If you really love her, you need to be honest with her and give her a choice.