You are lying by omission to a woman you profess to love. Love requires mutual respect and mutual trust, not lies. You are betraying her trust with this lie. It doesn't matter whether the lie is related to your HIV status. It's just a lie. This can't end well for you or for her. If you want to build this relationship, tell her only truths.
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