Take this response from a womans point of view, if she cares for you like you say she does then after a brief shock she should still consider you to be her magnet. But the longer you prolong ,( I assume you are planning to eventually tell ) , well if it was me then I would be furious. It doesn't matter what the statistics say, for a relationship to be nurtured and grow there needs to be honesty. I'm not talking about little stretches of the truth where you pull out your box of crayons to shade things in acceptable hues, But this is a major thing where in spite of studies you could very likely be jepordizing her health, and irrevocably changing her life. Your walking on thin ice and digging a deep hole under it all. But hey I'm just a woman that believes if you care and love as you say then you would say. You can at least say you just found out if that helps.But again being a woman I will not be graceful about this and its not all about intellengence. You want to hear things sugar coated well go eat some m&m's . Your being wrong , very dangerously wrong. If you care , then care.
Edited by riverprincess (01/24/12 08:39 AM)