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What can I do?
      03/05/14 05:17 AM

I have studied this website for at least two years and this is my first post to the forums. Thank you for allowing me to be here.

My BF is pos and I am neg. He is my best friend and I was the first person he told immediately following his diagonsis.

Fast forward 2 and 1/2 years later, here we are. I left my husband and now live with my BF. I swear, this is not what I had planned, but it's how it has worked out.

My BF is healthy for the most part. His numbers are great. He takes his meds everyday. He can be so much fun when he wants to be, but for the most part, he is miserable. He can be moody, depressed and cynical. I can understand that it is hard for him and I tell him everyday that I am here for him. We have been through so much together, but his negativity is beginning to affect me and my attitude. I feel like he is trying to push me away because he would rather argue with me than smile at me. I just don't know what I can do for him. I ask him, but he turns me away. Any input or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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* What can I do? nelsonmom 03/05/14 05:17 AM
. * Re: What can I do? jamieharris   06/05/14 02:49 PM
. * Re: What can I do? Realone   03/19/14 04:34 AM
. * Re: What can I do? riverprincessModerator   03/19/14 01:17 PM
. * Re: What can I do? anotherday   03/08/14 06:08 PM
. * Re: What can I do? riverprincessModerator   03/05/14 02:32 PM
. * Re: What can I do? nelsonmom   03/16/14 02:24 AM
. * Re: What can I do? riverprincessModerator   03/17/14 02:58 PM

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