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Re: My Dad has HIV and I need some resources to help us both psychologically..
      02/27/13 07:13 PM

I am truly sorry to hear about the situation that your family is going through and yet glad that this is finally out in the open amangst yourselves. Now don't think that what I'm going to say is in any way taking your dads side, what he had been doing was most definitly wrong, no doubt about that , but the guilt and keeping this all , an inner secret , I have no doubt caused him to go even further into the madness in an effort to hide from the shame he was feeling. Being a spiritual person I'm sure you understand how hiding this can truly eat away at a persons mind as the guilt builds. So that is why I say I'm glad it been brought to the surface. But counseling is definitly in order. If he expects his family to keep this secret going then the total breakthrough will never be completed. It does become a spiritual warfare for all.Crack is a instant addictive drug that knows no boundries, I am slll glad that you got him off that crap. It is the most devastating drug ever, and I being a drug addict myself , herion ,20 years worth messed with coke and crack and it is an ugly monster that is always hunger . And the Hiv , as sad as the secret was , is a very managable thing. The next difficult thing is going to be giving forgiveness, And being a born again person , it still can be a difficult step to take. No one likes being decieved . But that is what makes true forgiveness such a beautiful spiritual thing. I hope and pray the best to all in the family . Your welcome to come talk to me if ever you need. God bless...River

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* My Dad has HIV and I need some resources to help us both psychologically.. Lovinglolo 02/19/13 04:07 AM
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