Hi, my husband is living with the virus and we found out a couple of years ago. We've been married for 9 years and have had no sex for the last 7! We are still together and I love him and support him but we still have no sex life mainly bcoz he seems to have no sex drive and is unwilling to do anything about it. A few months ago I got into a casual sexual relationship with a colleague. I am negative but I am wondering if I need to mention my husband's status to this person -anyone has any suggestions?