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Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!!
      03/18/11 12:53 PM

OK, please understand that as much as you want to, you will never understand what he goes through, feels, etc...for 2 reasons (1) you arent nor never will be HIM (2) you arent in his shoes... HIV shoes are one pair that you cant just "put yourself into" as an outsider to even try & understand...

It affects each of us differently, yet sometimes the same, unfortunately we dont know how it will go until we are actually in those shoes... so, best advice for you: be content with & accept the fact that he has an illness and that puts A LOT on his plate. If ya love him support him. But if the disease takes over him, and/or it gets too much for you to handle...Take care of yourself & do whats right for you. Lead him by other words treat and love him as if he wasnt Poz (within reason of course, dont put yourself at risk) will find that goes farther than anything..

im sure its not what ya wanted to hear but its fact...good luck & god bless

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* I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! jwaesm 03/10/11 10:19 PM
. * Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! Daddy_Bearby   03/16/11 11:11 AM
. * Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! AIDS2HIV   03/18/11 12:53 PM
. * Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! njpozdad   03/15/11 07:00 PM
. * Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! Dee_M   03/15/11 06:53 PM
. * Re: I'm Hiv- and very confused!!! atlanticman   03/20/11 08:08 PM

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