New t0 Sero-discordant relationships
01/13/11 01:15 PM
My new partner is HIV with a non-detectable viral load and I'm negative.
condom broke and I came inside him without realising it had broken.
currently on a 30 day course of Truvada as went straight to the hospital (the same day) to protect me.
I don't appear to be getting support from my partner about taking the medication as he sees it unnecessary because he has an undetectable viral load and infact hung up on me over it.
I'm getting the you don't trust me shit and you can't get it from me.
It's hard enough loving him and getting through his barriers as we are a negative with a positive without the issue of me now taking medication.
I even had a health check in December so he knew I couldn't give him anything (everything was negative) and I even told him the results but he says he hasn't seen them (so have arranged to get a copy to show him). But this was before this incident and I now need to be tested at 6 weeks, 3 and 6 months.
Sorry just needed to vent as I need support too now.
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