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will the fear ever desappear?
      10/17/06 03:25 PM

My boyfriend has been diagnosed hiv postive 6 weeks ago. I tested negative, but i have to wait 2 more months to repeat it (we never used protection). i'm scared to death. I can't be passionate with him, it's like i lost all sexual appetite. I just need affection and comprehension. He's freaking out: he says I don't make him feel like a man, because there is no passion in me for him. It's true, but it's not my fault. I'm trying to go through this fear, working with a therapist, but my boyfriend don't understand. he says that he can't leave with somebody who is scared by him. he wants me to accept this desease, but he hasn't accept it at all.
what can i do? will the passion be back? will the fear ever disappear?i'm so sorry to hurt him, but my behavior is not intentional.
what can i do? the more he press me to get through this, the more i feel tense.
i feel so powerless.

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* will the fear ever desappear? Anonymous 10/17/06 03:25 PM
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