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difficoult moment ever.
      10/06/06 11:32 AM

Hy Everybody,
I'm very sad and hope somebody will read my story and give me some support.
My boyfriend of two years found out he's positive 4 weeks ago. We never used protection, he told me he just got tested (negative) few months before meeting me. I got testes immediately, negative. Now I have to wait the 3 months before getting testes again. We are both going through hell. He's very depressed and angry and I'm very anxious and scared. I try to support him, but he don't support me at all. He thinks this is only his problem, but it's not. We are a couple so it's a problem for both of us. In this very tough moment it seems to me like all the small or big problem we always had in our relationship, they all come out at the same time. I see things with a more clear view now. in the past months I always try not to consider these problems between us, but now here they are. We don't have a good comunication and we can see that especially right now. I realize our relationship will not work, he can't support me, we are very different and he never understand my needs. Now we are fighting a lot. He can't see how things really are and keep saying that I 'll leave him because of the virus. It' s not like that. It's like right now I'm having a crisis with myself and see things more clearly. He makes me feel so bad. I'm sure our relation won't last because af a lot of issues we have, not because of the virus. It's just that this tough period made things coming up clearer for me. I fee so bad. I don't want him to pass through all this alone, but I feel i can't do anything for him and i'm sure our relation won't work. What can I do? Everyday is a nightmare.
PLease give me your suggestions. thank you all.

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* difficoult moment ever. Anonymous 10/06/06 11:32 AM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. heal   05/07/10 10:57 AM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Anonymous   10/12/06 12:42 PM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Anonymous   10/12/06 12:51 PM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Survivor   10/12/06 11:58 PM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. austcarib   10/11/06 10:51 PM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Anonymous   10/13/06 08:06 AM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Anonymous   10/08/06 03:23 PM
. * Re: difficoult moment ever. Survivor   10/09/06 08:50 PM
. * I'm sorry Understand   10/07/06 10:56 PM
. * Re: I'm sorry Anonymous   10/11/06 01:00 PM
. * Re: I'm sorry Anonymous   10/11/06 10:52 PM
. * Re: I'm sorry Survivor   10/11/06 11:40 PM
. * Re: I'm sorry Anonymous   10/11/06 09:20 PM
. * Re: I'm sorry Anonymous   10/12/06 11:47 AM
. * Re: I'm sorry Anonymous   10/13/06 10:07 PM
. * How Long? Anonymous   10/14/06 01:53 AM

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