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Sero-discordant couple - am I normal
      12/26/05 10:22 AM

Hello, I have been married for ten years and my husband was diagnosed two years ago with hiv. He is not on meds yet and is doing well. However, I still am having trouble with him sexually. I am stll afraid and very very anxious when I am engaging in sexual intercourse or other safe sex activities and the anxiety is worse after the fact, thinking he might have had cuts on his fingers or me have some in my mouth or some semen leaked from the condom. It is so bad now, that I have stopped all forms of sexual intimacy with him. I love him but I don't know how to stop feeling this way. I have gone to a counselor over this and educated myself on the ways it is or is not transmitted. But I still feel this way. We do have children which comes into play of me not wanting to ever catch the disease. I would be happy with no sex except for mutual masturbation or oral sex with condoms to releive my anxiety but he isn't happy with that. Am I normal? Does anyone else feel this way? I am am afraid my marriage is going to fail.. Please help me....

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