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Sero-discordant couple - counselor??
10/07/05 04:31 PM
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Is there such a thing as a serodiscordant counselor? My husband is hiv positive and I am negative. We found out after we were married and no matter, what I read, who I talk to doctor's, hospital's etc, I can not seem to be able to have protected sex. I am too scared, nervous, worried to enjoy it even with condoms. I am an easy going person, not anal and fun to be with, but this has really thrown a loop on my life and my husband's. We have children too. I just do not ever want to get the virus and I know I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, but I still just do not want to take whatever small chance it would be. I mean, I have tried and I am just too nervous, uncomfortable to enjoy it. So, what is the point? Sex should not be fearful..... He has had it for over two years, we had a newborn, so that distracted me and him the first couple of years, with no energy, but not now. Do I get a divorce so he can find someone who can have sex?We are young in our thirties. Please don't say read more about the facts, I have and it still does not help. Is there a counselor to deal with this?
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